Hi Granarchist I didn't know about secret FB page. I'll look into it. Also my son-in-law (stepdaughters hubby) has an email account for his 2 kids where he writes a diary for them. When they are old enough he will give them the password so they can read it. Not they are estranged, he just thought it a nice thing to do. So, another option.
It's sad that we estranged ones have to think about such things though isn't it?
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