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LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 04-Aug-16 12:29:02

Is there an afterlife?

While we're unlikely ever to know for sure, says author Theresa Cheung, there are a startling number of accounts from those who have had near death experiences that point towards the possibility of an afterlife. What do you think?

Theresa Cheung

Is there an afterlife?

Posted on: Thu 04-Aug-16 12:29:02

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Do you believe in life after death?

It’s unlikely that we will ever have solid scientific proof that there is life after death, but we do have something that comes extremely close and that is accounts of people who have actually died and returned to tell their stories.

These voyagers to frontiers unknown report astonishing glimpses of a world beyond, a world that shimmers with light, magic and love. Hailey sent me her story:

"In 2005 I nearly died on the operating table. I haemorrhaged and my doctor later told me that everyone thought they had lost me. I recall floating above my body and seeing the surgeon and staff panic as they tried to save my life. I didn't feel any panic myself. It was as if I was watching an interesting novelty. I wasn't involved.

Suddenly, I felt myself being blown feet first into a grey mist. I don't know why but I remember seeing my legs and bare feet bathed in yellow light floating into the mist. When I was in the mist I lived my life again. Can't explain it very well but I remembered everything and again there was that feeling of interested detachment. I wasn't involved. I just watched. Then I found myself in this beautiful place. It was the most gorgeous and glittering place I have ever seen – like a garden but so much more than a garden. I felt nothing but completeness and happiness. My mind was still. I heard music but music that I have not heard on earth before and the scenery about me was like nothing I have seen on earth either – it was so vivid and beautiful. It shimmered like crystal and diamonds. Then everything vanished and the next thing I recall is waking up feeling very sore and tired in the recovery room.

I don't know why but I remember seeing my legs and bare feet bathed in yellow light floating into the mist. When I was in the mist I lived my life again.


Everyone who knows me will tell you that afterwards I changed. I know I have changed. It sounds corny but I feel like I was somehow born again, starting my life again. I am more compassionate and considerate of myself and others. I live in the present. I'm not afraid to be loving and spontaneous. I see more clearly now."

Near death experiences (NDEs) occur when a person is clinically dead or dangerously close to death. There are many questions about NDEs but one thing is certain and that is they exist. There are thousands of reports from people who believe they have glimpsed life after death, and a recent scientific study led by Dr Sam Parnia from the University of Southampton, has tentatively proved that consciousness can survive bodily death by at least three minutes.

Initially, when I began to collect afterlife encounter stories, I thought the experience was extremely rare, but I could not have been more wrong. Over the years the stories have flooded in and one reason for that may be modern resuscitation techniques because thirty or forty years ago these people would have died and taken their golden stories with them.

Not surprisingly, there have been many doubts about the validity of NDEs and chief among these is the argument that the experience is simply a hallucination but this cannot explain why all over the world and throughout history thousands of men, women and children have reported similar sensations during NDEs despite radical differences in cultures and belief systems. How is that possible? Surely, if the experience was hallucination wouldn't each person imagine something different? Why are there such strong similarities? Why after their NDE do people consistently report that they have lost their fear of death?

Theresa's book The Ten Secrets of Heaven: Mysteries of the Afterlifeis published in paperback by Simon & Schuster, and is available from Amazon. You can also find Theresa on Facebook here.

By Theresa Cheung

Twitter: @simonschuster

Grannyknot Fri 05-Aug-16 10:53:35

I've written about this on GN before I think; my mother was dying of lung cancer and her three adult children were with her, taking turns to sit with her. On one of the occasions when I was with her, she said "There are lots of people in the room, the room is really crowded". It freaked me out a bit because there was only me (and her). On another occasion when we were all three with her, she whispered with a contented smile, that my gran (her mother) was there.

She wasn't on any medication and the above happened the day before she died, so couldn't have been hallucinations due to death or medication. I've pondered about it from time to time.

Esspee Fri 05-Aug-16 13:16:19

I have always wondered how normally intelligent people can believe in religious mumbo jumbo.

BlueBelle Fri 05-Aug-16 13:39:21

On the subject of mediums ... Think about it if there is really an after life wouldn't it be hell to be looking down on your kids and grandkids seeing them crying, unhappy, ill hurt, injured do you really really think if we were looking down and seeing what they are doing would be heaven oh my word that would be cruelty of the highest degree
I m afraid I think mediums are all charletons just out to make money out of misery

Surely the wisdom and knowledge gained Wot is passed on to those you come in contact with children grandchildren friends ..... not kept. what use would it be in a heaven

I think we probably all agree there isn't a physical heaven with lots of bodies in it , our soul or being, call it what you will is just what we pass on in life ....as simple as that, our memory good or bad is all that is left of us

Anniebach Fri 05-Aug-16 14:15:48

I have often wondered why some people cannot respect the fact that mocking people's faith is ill mannered and deeply offensive, suppose they get w kick out of it ,quite sad really

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 14:35:05

The first post. I ever put on GN was about the afterlife. I had some really abrupt responses at first which nearly put me off.

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 14:38:31

Esspee, I have often wondered why some people are rude.

Panthea27 Fri 05-Aug-16 14:44:20

I would like to say that I joined Gransnet to speak up for a Friend. She had the " Temerity" to whisper a few of you " Ladies" to tell about her book. NOT to sell it you understand, simply to let you know that is could be read for free on Amazon Kindle if one is a member of the Library.
This caused her account to be suspended, however GNHQ were so unprofessional and rude, not to have told her this was what they were doing. She then received a very patronizing mail telling her that she had been reported, and if she agreed to stick to the rules she would be reinstated.The most disappointing thing here is that you " Ladies" who did the reporting ( YOU know who you are), could have whispered her and said that you didn't like to receive personal messages, or perhaps pointing out that this is frowned upon, thereby giving her a chance to put things right. How nasty to report someone, what a lovely welcome. For sure she does not want to come back now. Just thought you should know this and hope you are happy with yourselves. Nice work!

Jane10 Fri 05-Aug-16 15:54:36

Er what's this got to do with this thread? Sorry your friend went about promoting her book in the wrong way. An email to GNHQ asking them how best to do it would most likely have led to a positive response. No need for the unpleasant tone of Pantheas posting.

Ana Fri 05-Aug-16 16:01:08

And if by 'whisper' you mean she sent various members PMs promoting her book, then it's no surprise she was reported to GNHQ!

People understandably don't like receiving unsolicited private messages from someone they've never heard of before.

RockNanny Fri 05-Aug-16 16:02:47

I have read a lot of books on spiritualism, life after death, etc., have had messages from mediums - some amazing and some mediocre - and I currently belong to an elightenment circle at my local spiritualist church. My own daughter and son-in-law have had several unusual experiences. I like to think I am open-minded, not being yet totally convinced of what it is all about. I do know, though, that there is a lot in life, time and space that we do not have the answers to.....yet! I have read a book or two by Theresa. Can't comment here as I have read so many books. I have to say, though, that to anyone who is curious I would strongly recommend reading one called "Visions, Trips and Crowded Rooms" by David Kessler. Unless you're an absolute sceptic it will really give you a lot to wonder at.

Panthea27 Fri 05-Aug-16 16:07:49

Nothing to do with this posting at all I just wanted to pop it somewhere. Judging by the " Friendly" response I think my friend did herself a favour, never come accross such an unfriendly community .
Please do enjoy your meaningless conversations.
Signing out
Panthea

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 16:10:04

Message deleted by Gransnet. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Elrel Fri 05-Aug-16 16:20:02

If Panthea had deigned to look at a few threads before giving her verdict she would have seen the kindness and support on Gransnet.

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 17:27:43

Oh! ?

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 17:31:14

Sorry. As Elrel says, the vast majority of GN ers are kind and supportive.

Elrel Fri 05-Aug-16 17:36:00

Wot - absolutely, she was too quick to judge us, ALL of us! I almost seconded your deleted post!!

nanaK54 Fri 05-Aug-16 17:54:20

I am fairly new but can say that I think it's a really friendly and supportive community with many interesting threads

Newquay Fri 05-Aug-16 18:09:27

Years ago I suddenly had a bad back, was in dreadful pain. Went to bed and slept (unusually). Next morning I was desperate for the loo. DH tried to help me to sit up to get to toilet. Pain was excruciating.
He says my eyes rolled up, he has seen me faint and this was no ordinary faint-he thought I'd died.
I say I was whizzing along a dark tunnel (like the underground) towards a light (like at the end of a tunnel). Suddenly stopped, quite clearly heard a voice say "wrong direction" and I whizzed back to hear DH shouting at me to breathe!!
I am a Christian and have believed for a long time as Mumofmad boys so succinctly explains.
I have doubts about details having a DD suffering a dreadful chronic illness despite all our prayers-she does, however, live her life to the full thanks to modern medicine.
Also my dear sister's husband spent a l-o-n-g 9 years dying, it was awful and again, despite many prayers he suffered and died.
I have no explanation or answer for their sufferings or my experience but life would be awful IMHO without the prospect that "all will be well".
As someone else said it's a free gift, you can't earn your way to heaven. It just has to be accepted.

Iam64 Fri 05-Aug-16 18:15:28

I am always puzzled when non believers support their views by insisting that if there is a God s/he would not allow suffering. Suffering is part of the human condition. Even when things are going smoothly in our own lives, we'll have loved ones who are struggling, or we'll switch on the news and see dreadful events devastating lives.
I can't imagine what we'd all be like if our God/s ensured life was always a bowl of cherries. People can be selfish, judgemental and cruel - no God or spirit makes them behave like that. It's free choice.

Falconbird Fri 05-Aug-16 18:53:08

Newquay:

I nearly died when I had menigitus as a child and I also went down the tunnel which was exactly as you describe. It was like the underground with a light at the end.

I was brought back by powereful antibiotics and nurses yelling at me "come back Falconbird" except they obviously used my real name smile

Newquay Fri 05-Aug-16 19:46:49

Yes it was a strange and, surprisingly common, event Falconbird.
You can only tell things as they happened to you.
It's not something I tell everyone unless it sort of 'arises' in conversation. . . .

Falconbird Fri 05-Aug-16 20:14:39

I've never heard anyone describe it as being in the underground although I have heard about the tunnel experience. I was travelling at great speed and didn't want to come back.

I was only 11 and I had never heard anyone talk about this and I had never been in the underground.

Fascinating.

starbird Fri 05-Aug-16 20:18:31

As to why people don't come back and show themselves - as per my previous post, this did happen with my father in law.

However, my belief is that once you leave this world, life is so much bigger and better, new avenues open up, time as we know it is irrelevant. Most of those who have near death experiences do not want to come back, nor do they feel the urge to contact those left behind, knowing they will be together eventually. It is only when persuaded that they have a job to do in this life that they return.

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 20:42:32

I agree, starbird.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 05-Aug-16 21:11:20

I'm blowed if I'd bother to report it if someone pm'd me trying to sell their book. Why would you bother? confused

GNHQ are very patronising. *panthea's right there! grin

Back to the thread! (Not that I've got anything to add)