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LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 04-Aug-16 12:29:02

Is there an afterlife?

While we're unlikely ever to know for sure, says author Theresa Cheung, there are a startling number of accounts from those who have had near death experiences that point towards the possibility of an afterlife. What do you think?

Theresa Cheung

Is there an afterlife?

Posted on: Thu 04-Aug-16 12:29:02

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Do you believe in life after death?

It’s unlikely that we will ever have solid scientific proof that there is life after death, but we do have something that comes extremely close and that is accounts of people who have actually died and returned to tell their stories.

These voyagers to frontiers unknown report astonishing glimpses of a world beyond, a world that shimmers with light, magic and love. Hailey sent me her story:

"In 2005 I nearly died on the operating table. I haemorrhaged and my doctor later told me that everyone thought they had lost me. I recall floating above my body and seeing the surgeon and staff panic as they tried to save my life. I didn't feel any panic myself. It was as if I was watching an interesting novelty. I wasn't involved.

Suddenly, I felt myself being blown feet first into a grey mist. I don't know why but I remember seeing my legs and bare feet bathed in yellow light floating into the mist. When I was in the mist I lived my life again. Can't explain it very well but I remembered everything and again there was that feeling of interested detachment. I wasn't involved. I just watched. Then I found myself in this beautiful place. It was the most gorgeous and glittering place I have ever seen – like a garden but so much more than a garden. I felt nothing but completeness and happiness. My mind was still. I heard music but music that I have not heard on earth before and the scenery about me was like nothing I have seen on earth either – it was so vivid and beautiful. It shimmered like crystal and diamonds. Then everything vanished and the next thing I recall is waking up feeling very sore and tired in the recovery room.

I don't know why but I remember seeing my legs and bare feet bathed in yellow light floating into the mist. When I was in the mist I lived my life again.


Everyone who knows me will tell you that afterwards I changed. I know I have changed. It sounds corny but I feel like I was somehow born again, starting my life again. I am more compassionate and considerate of myself and others. I live in the present. I'm not afraid to be loving and spontaneous. I see more clearly now."

Near death experiences (NDEs) occur when a person is clinically dead or dangerously close to death. There are many questions about NDEs but one thing is certain and that is they exist. There are thousands of reports from people who believe they have glimpsed life after death, and a recent scientific study led by Dr Sam Parnia from the University of Southampton, has tentatively proved that consciousness can survive bodily death by at least three minutes.

Initially, when I began to collect afterlife encounter stories, I thought the experience was extremely rare, but I could not have been more wrong. Over the years the stories have flooded in and one reason for that may be modern resuscitation techniques because thirty or forty years ago these people would have died and taken their golden stories with them.

Not surprisingly, there have been many doubts about the validity of NDEs and chief among these is the argument that the experience is simply a hallucination but this cannot explain why all over the world and throughout history thousands of men, women and children have reported similar sensations during NDEs despite radical differences in cultures and belief systems. How is that possible? Surely, if the experience was hallucination wouldn't each person imagine something different? Why are there such strong similarities? Why after their NDE do people consistently report that they have lost their fear of death?

Theresa's book The Ten Secrets of Heaven: Mysteries of the Afterlifeis published in paperback by Simon & Schuster, and is available from Amazon. You can also find Theresa on Facebook here.

By Theresa Cheung

Twitter: @simonschuster

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 05-Aug-16 21:12:59

I am totally through with this bloody 'God' thing.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 05-Aug-16 21:14:19

If there was one, I would totally dislike him.

Anniebach Fri 05-Aug-16 21:25:00

There is one Jingle and he loves you , totally

Ana Fri 05-Aug-16 21:26:35

You're right that there's only one jingl, Annie! grin

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 05-Aug-16 21:32:55

grin

Anniebach Fri 05-Aug-16 21:45:52

True Anya, he doesn't make mistakes ,hence only one Jingle, two would be a big mistake grin

obieone Fri 05-Aug-16 23:18:35

There are probably more points I would like to respond to, but I will have to come back to them at a later time or day.

But I did want to ask jingl something. If I remember correctly, you did used to believe in God more than you do now? And I am wondering, and rather hoping that it was not something I, or perhaps someone else said on gransnet that put you off, if you dont mind me asking?

Also, I do think that those who may have had more faith previously than they do right now, hold on to whatever faith they have left, as it is so very important to do that.

Faye Fri 05-Aug-16 23:37:33

I think people do come back but are mostly not noticed. One night after falling asleep with my bedside lamp on I woke up and there was a woman sitting next to my bed. She was holding a baby but I could only see the back of the baby's head. She looked very much like she could have been my sister, similar hair, also similar features to me. As I sat up and she faded. I surprised myself because I automatically reached out to her as I sat up...eek. Makes me wonder who is sitting watching us while we sleep or go about our daily lives.

I was at my mother's once and we were watching a programme, as it finished my mother drifted off to sleep. We were going to watch another one straight after so I jumped up and said I would make us a cup of tea. Mum walked into the kitchen straight after and said she wondered where she was for a moment. There was a girl sitting at the dining table watching mum. My mother said she had a large ribbon in her hair, but wouldn't talk about it as it scared her. Another time my mother woke up in the night and could see her mother in the mirror, she said it really frightened her and she said it seemed like she was there for quite a few minutes. My mother didn't drink and prided herself on not taking medication until she became elderly. She was always a healthy active person, not really interested in things such as ghosts, the after life etc.

I can't remember if I have posted about these two incidences, I could write a book on these experiences.

Granny23 Sat 06-Aug-16 00:09:56

When I lost our second baby and what seemed like gallons of blood, I too had a trip whooshing along the tunnel towards the bright light with a sense of people who had gone before, including my Granny, reaching out to welcome me. Then I sensed my DH calling and pulling me back and reminding me that I had a toddler who needed me. The light faded and I slowly receded back to my bed and after what seemed a long time opened my eyes and saw my distraught DH. I felt sad but very calm, although I had silent tears running down my face. The Doctor had also arrived while I was 'away' and I remember that he said 'Welcome back to the land of the living - you gave us a bit of a fright then'.

Later my DH confirmed that I had been 'gone' for quite some time and that he had been shaking me and screaming at me.

Having always had very low blood pressure, I have fainted umpteen times, but apart from the whooshing noise (which I believe is the blood draining from the brain) this experience was totally different in that I felt neither sick nor dizzy, nor disoriented. It was, rather, a pleasant and comforting experience.

Marmark1 Sat 06-Aug-16 08:49:39

Am I hearing,some of you people are church goers?

Gononsuch Sat 06-Aug-16 08:59:59

Can't argue with most of whats been said on this thread, I don't have faith in live. I believe that you should get the "knife in first" and funnily enough I don't have the problems that most people have on this forum.

God votes Labour, that's right isn't it Anniebach.

Sorry just can't take it seriously.

GNHQ if you do make it a subscription service I will subscribe.

Maggiemaybe Sat 06-Aug-16 09:02:25

confused

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 06-Aug-16 09:05:57

Obieone absolutely nothing to do with anything you, or anyone on here, has said. smile

Jane10 Sat 06-Aug-16 09:06:42

confusedconfused!

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 06-Aug-16 09:08:12

I'm buttered if I'd pay for this stuff gonon!

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 06-Aug-16 09:09:01

buggered

Jane10 Sat 06-Aug-16 09:11:24

Buttered would be interesting! My last comments were for Gononsuch. GOKW what s/he's on about.

AllTheLs Sat 06-Aug-16 09:22:22

An afterlife? I sincerely hope not!

Maccyt1955 Sat 06-Aug-16 09:23:22

I absolutely believe in an afterlife and in reincarnation. When my father was dying he told me that his mother was waiting for him. Two days after he had died I was trying to sleep and the bedroom was filled with the smell of his favourite after shave: Eau Savage.

As a former palliative care nurse, I have witnessed beautiful smiles on the faces of people who have just died after terrible suffering.

I feel sorry for people with rigid ideas that when we die that is it. It must be a very difficult way to live and to have no imagination and no hope.

Elegran Sat 06-Aug-16 09:26:00

Not sure of the connection between getting the knife in first and anyone's concept of an afterlife? Surely that is a matter for individual belief and experience?

I don't believe in "putting the knife in first" Gononsuch and, funnily enough, neither do I have the problems that some people have on this forum (not most of them, just some)

Quite a few of the relationship problems in life arise from being too quick to get the retaliation in fast.

michellehargreaves Sat 06-Aug-16 09:30:17

I think we should all be entitled to our opinions and beliefs - as long as they don't impinge on anyone else.
Having said that, a strange thing happened the night before my mother died, she was 52 and not ill at all; she died in a car accident the next day. She had had a brother and a sister who had died in the 1920s when she was a child. She was sitting with us and chatting when she said, "I feel very close to May and Tommy-Joe this evening. I feel they are looking over my shoulder". She was killed the next day. Certainly no lack of oxygen to the brain when whatever it was happened.
I'm still not sure whether there is or isn't anything after death. My father died on Monday ( 44 years after Mummy ) I hope she was there, but i really don't know.

Anniebach Sat 06-Aug-16 09:38:17

No Gonosuch, God doesn't vote labour, he votes Plaid Cymru

Gononsuch Sat 06-Aug-16 09:39:56

Nice one Annie flowers

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 06-Aug-16 09:40:05

Very good! grin

Marmark1 Sat 06-Aug-16 09:44:01

Don't have problems Gononsuch??