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LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 17-Nov-16 10:42:52

The wrong kind of refugee?

In recent years, the world has witnessed a refugee crisis that has forced more than a million men, women and children to flee the brutal violence in their own countries. Yet despite the life-threatening situations they face, these refugees (including children) have often been met with a degree of suspicion and fear in the nations they have escaped to.

Author Barbara Fox, whose own mother was evacuated from inner-city Newcastle as a child, wonders what the difference between Britain's long-ago children and today's refugees is?

Barbara Fox

The wrong kind of refugee?

Posted on: Thu 17-Nov-16 10:42:52

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Are today's refugees really any different?

When I read a headline recently about the outrage of a 'picturesque' village to which 70 'child migrants' were to be sent, I was reminded of another time in our history when places in the countryside were obliged to welcome strangers into their midst.

Back in 1940 when she was six years old, my mother, Gwenda, and her older brother, Doug, were among the hundreds of thousands of children who left their inner-city homes and were evacuated to the countryside to escape the German bombs.

Gwenda's main memory of her journey from Newcastle to the Lake District centres round the banana she was given to eat by her mother – the last she was to see for several years. A teacher ordered the children to sit on their bags, and consequently, when Gwenda came to unpack later, she found squashed banana over all her belongings.

On arrival in the pretty village of Bampton they were lined up in the church hall while the villagers came to choose who they wanted. Yes, it does seem unbelievable that that was how the evacuees were billeted to their families! You might imagine that Gwenda and Doug – clean, nicely dressed children - would have been snapped up first (they would surely be the refugees that no one would protest about today!). But actually, that was not the case. Gwenda was the youngest child there as she was tagging along with Doug and his class of nine-year-olds - their mother had insisted that the pair should not be separated. Consequently, the locals were expecting older children, and someone of Gwenda's size probably didn't look very useful in this farming community.

Were these home-grown children that our rural communities welcomed back then really so different from the oft-maligned refugee children today?


Gwenda and Doug were the only children left when the wife of the village headmaster arrived. As the mother of two sons, she had to be persuaded to take a girl. However, she relented, and so the children went home with her. They would spend three happy years living in the schoolhouse and Gwenda would keep in touch with the couple she called 'Aunty' and 'Uncle' for the rest of their lives.

The following year, in more desperate circumstances, Bampton opened its doors to another influx of children, this time from the shipbuilding town of Barrow-in-Furness.

Undoubtedly thousands of lives were saved by this evacuation of the nation's children, and indeed, Gwenda and Doug's own street in Newcastle was bombed.

Britain also welcomed refugees from Europe, including thousands of Jewish children who might otherwise have perished.

Were these home-grown children that our rural communities welcomed back then really so different from the oft-maligned refugee children today? I would go so far as to say that the inner-city children who turned up in Bampton were often just as alien to their rural hosts as the foreign newcomers seem to be to the 'picturesque' village dwellers. But equally, both could teach something to the other.

Those harking back to 'when Britain was great' perhaps forget that it was also characterised by our opening our doors to those in need.

When the War Is Over by Barbara Fox, the story of Gwenda’s wartime evacuation, is published by Sphere and is available from Amazon.

By Barbara Fox

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durhamjen Sun 12-Feb-17 08:26:54

www.theguardian.com/world/2017/feb/12/dunkirk-child-refugees-risk-sexual-violence

whitewave Sat 11-Feb-17 12:50:08

Something I was reading this morning. The British tabloid press led by the Mail when considering the refugee crises always talks in terms of the economy.

Everywhere else in Europe the press talks about the refugee crises in humanitarian terms.

Where are we going as a country? I think as I suggested yesterday, language and attitudes are being coursened.

durhamjen Sat 11-Feb-17 12:39:10

"Several Conservative back-benchers were among the most scathing in their criticism of Ms Rudd. She is trying to “cut and run from child refugees”, according to colleague David Burrowes, and talking “utter rubbish”, says Tory MP Heidi Allen – who will support a judicial review on the decision.

It is certainly true that other countries in Europe and the Middle East could do more to help people escaping this humanitarian disaster on our doorstep. But since when has finger-pointing been the start of moral action?

Faced with the scale of suffering we see unfolding in Syria, the Dubs scheme is a mere token – but still a vital expression of our compassion, and a sign that Britain is not retreating from the world after Brexit. How many more children must die beneath the wheels of lorries heading to our shores?"

From an editorial in the i.
I agree with every word of it.

durhamjen Fri 10-Feb-17 16:36:57

Anyone who is on twitter, this is a way to let Amber Rudd know what you think about the government's abandonment of the Dub's agreement.

www.globalcitizen.org/en/content/uk-government-abandons-commitment-to-accepting-una/

whitewave Fri 10-Feb-17 16:22:45

Sorry about above post it is on the wrong thread. I was just reading the posts and forgot I was on wrong thread to post my thoughts.

Must admit, there are certainly some individuals in this world with whom one wouldn't want any nearer than a barge pole. Absolutely shocking posts.

whitewave Fri 10-Feb-17 16:08:54

God I hope this government is making a better job of Brexit than than they have of understanding the law. Although I wouldn't hold your breath. Went out with some friends last night who were describing how Brexit is shaping up in the various government departments. Strewth!!!!

MawBroon Fri 10-Feb-17 16:07:35

Don't bother quoting data, giving links or even sharing your own experience. It is clear that (in her eyes at least) Mair knows better than anybody. Her examples are relevant, her links up to date, her generalisations are always spot on and anything which does not chime with own perceptive observations has either been photoshopped, "misremembered", or is too specific/generalised (irrelevant which) to be worthy of consideration.
"Save your breath to cool your porridge" is what they say North of the Border and Mair might as well argue to an empty room for all the credence attached to any other opinion.
Appeals to better nature are equally doomed from the outset, and as for human charity? That clearly identifies the "holier than thou" or "globalist tyrants".
Flying from Juba to Heathrow, eh? Is she (perish the thought) herself perhaps an immigrant?

durhamjen Fri 10-Feb-17 15:51:31

"The charity Help Refugees had already launched an application for Judicial Review for the government’s failure to properly implement the Dubs Amendment, back in 2016. The claim (brought by three barristers from Doughty Street, instructed by Leigh Day) asserts that the government failed to properly consult with local authorities as required by statute (as per Section 67.2 of the 2016 Act), and therefore both unlawfully and incorrectly calculated the number of children to bring. The case characterises the government’s figure as woefully low, and the claim won a pretty significant victory in December 2016: the court found that the Dubs Amendment was an additional obligation that the government did not meet by acting in accordance with EU law, specifically Dublin III above.

The next hearing for this case is actually today, in the High Court. This in an interesting one to watch in light of these recent developments, so watch this space!"

In which case, why did Amber Rudd announce yesterday that the government was going to stop bringing children in under the Dub's amendment?

durhamjen Fri 10-Feb-17 15:43:55

www.helprefugees.org.uk/news/big-brands-come-forward-support-refugees/

www.helprefugees.org.uk/news/one-greek-hairdresser-helped-20000-refugees/

I'd much rather hear about these people who are helping refugees, than those like our government and the US who try all sorts of methods to evade their responsibility towards refugees.

durhamjen Fri 10-Feb-17 14:03:02

It has also gone unnoticed until toda that the government has banned accepting disabled chid refugees as it says we cannot cope with them.
If we can't, who can?
Are they saying that they are better off where they are?
Apparently the Hoome Office has been refusing to consider applications from children with disabilities since at least the beginning of January.
A government with as much heart as someone else on this thread.

Remind me, Mair, do you have children or grandchildren?

JessM Fri 10-Feb-17 13:25:53

Archbishop of Canterbury talking right now on BBCR4 about the moral reasons why it is very important to take in children stuck in EU because they will otherwise they will end up trafficked, exploited and abused. Also "Not fair to leave the burden of this on Greece and Italy"

Iam64 Fri 10-Feb-17 13:18:30

im catching up after a longish break (for me)'a lot can be said in 24 hours. I was shocked by the way Mair delights in posting rude, dismissive posts, totally lacking in compassion. I try and avoid responding because its clear that Mair enjoys being the centre of attention, dominating discussions with unpleasant views.
I enjoyed reading your comment Anya, about having your horizons extended and a reminder why you don't mix with some people in RL
I wasn't a teacher but I spent forty years working with children and families I met a number of refugee/ asylum seeker children, from different parts of Africa, Iraq and Afghanistan. Without exception, they had experienced horrors we can only imagine. people often blame political correctness for closing down open debate about concerns about the best way to support those in need. What about the heartless, overly simplistic, coarse and callous points of view expressed by some. I'm sure that keeps many from the debate.

Welshwife Fri 10-Feb-17 13:16:19

In the culture of India and Pakistan and I would imagine at least some parts of Afghanistan it is polite to address older men who are friends of the family as 'Uncle'. We knew an Indian chap quite well and DD said to him that he seemed to have a huge number of Uncles and he explained to her the custom. So maybe not quite so many relatives.

Anya Fri 10-Feb-17 12:46:38

Oops! Hanging not banging blush shock

Anya Fri 10-Feb-17 12:43:53

Just keeping paying out the rope and she'll keep on banging herself.

It's interesting to meet people like Mair on forums. It just goes to extend my horizons and to remind me the world is full of people I don't choose to mix with in RL.

Keep up the good work Mair grin

Jalima Fri 10-Feb-17 12:36:32

even if the parents and brothers and sisters were all killed by a bomb.
Gosh, you're all heart Mair

MawBroon Fri 10-Feb-17 12:19:15

Holier than thou not " though"
Duh!

Mair Fri 10-Feb-17 12:02:23

And why should they go back Mair?

Not knowing any of the details of the case none of us are in a position to say if they should go back or not Anya but of course theyre going to claim to have no relatives left in Afghanistan to strengthen their argument to remain. They'd be fools not to. I'd say their claim is almost certainly false, given the size of Afghan extended families (one of the highest birthrates in the world). They almost certainly have aunts and uncles even if the parents and brothers and sisters were all killed by a bomb.

Mair Fri 10-Feb-17 11:56:11

No, don't bother to quote me in "bold" and launch into another of your swingeing diatribes mair

LOL Pot calling kettle black. grin

Your holier than though pontificating doesnt merit a response Mawb but I couldnt resist a fish in a barrel!

Mair Fri 10-Feb-17 11:47:36

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whitewave Fri 10-Feb-17 11:08:46

Someone said last night that the language and attitude and values in the UK is being coursened. We were known throughout the world for our compassion and care. The creeping arrogant selfishness and and smug self satisfaction is an attitude with which I wish to have nothing to do with nor communication with.

JessM Fri 10-Feb-17 10:58:35

What's good about this thread MawBroom is that it reveals this kind of unpleasantness to ordinary, kind hearted grandparents on this site, many of whom have teenaged grandchildren, or can remember being the parents of teenagers. Also many of us have also been secondary teachers and know that teenaged kids are not demons - they are vulnerable, funny and often inspiring.

MawBroon Fri 10-Feb-17 10:40:11

While there will always be those who abuse a system I nevertheless find the smug, triumphalist tone of mair's post at 9.44 last night positively nauseating and entirelyl lacking in common humanity.
If that is UKIP's ethos what a dreadful indictment of where we have reached in society.
No, don't bother to quote me in "bold" and launch into another of your swingeing diatribes mair.
Such arrogant selfishness from the other side of the pulled-up drawbridge presents an ugly image. Nothing you say can do other than to reinforce that.

Welshwife Fri 10-Feb-17 10:24:02

These particular boys appeared to be very quiet - they said they had no family at all left. They would not be accepted back as they will have had such a very different upbringing - they said they were still in touch with friends who had been sent back and who now had nowhere to live etc and the oldest one said many of them end up on Cocaine living under bridges.
Of course not seeing them or listening to them does give you a very good idea of what they are like!
Britain has there a young man who wants to be a doctor and work in UK hospitals - he will be British trained too - not going to some poor University somewhere in the back of beyond!

Anya Fri 10-Feb-17 09:58:57

I do however agree that the policy should have been youngest children first.

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