Goodness this has made me think. Both my father's parents were long gone sadly but if my maternal grandfather had read to me I think it would have been a gardening book! My maternal grandmother (they were separated) did send me books - all very religious - the only one of which I remember was Mary Jones and her Bible.
It was my father who gave me a love of reading which I am only to happy to pass on to my grandchildren. Like other posters I read what would seemed quite "inappropriate" books at the time for my age. I loved, and never stopped loving, The Water Babies but went through phases of reading my brothers books; Bulldog Drummond seemed to feature quite heavily at one point and then I had a phase of reading every Zane Grey in the Library. On the other hand, I had my own copies of Little Women, Jo's Boys, etc., and Anne of Gables and other "suitable" books.
When I am thinking about books for the GCs I am often surprised at how frightening some of the ones I know are. No wonder I had nightmares at times!
Is it rude to not finish a book club choice that was selected by someone else?







- so perhaps we learn not only by example but from what we would have liked to experience!