Harry & Meghan biography

Bridgeit
Yes, you have a good point. However I don’t think Meghan has made Harry happy, my opinion of course, but a comparison of photos of the laughing, happy Harry pre Meghan, and the miserable looking, and unhappy looking Harry post Meghan appear to show a very different Harry.
The pained expression on Harry’s face throughout the Commonwealth Service show Harry to be miserable, cross, unfriendly whilst Meghan was sporting an ear to ear smile throughout the event. A lipreader reported that Meghan said ‘big smile’ to Harry in the church, what happy young man needs an instruction from his wife on how to appear in public, particularly a young man who has been brought up in the public eye, who has shown every sign of being happy in the public eye, there are many, many photos showing him happily laughing, in particular with William and Catherine, but since marrying Meghan is shown on photographs scowling, frowning, and miserable.

Love isn’t a game

as someone who had to make the decision many years ago between family and a marriage, I chose family , never regretted it, I firmly believe one cannot find happiness at the
cost of unhappiness in others.

If that is the case , eventually it will all go T- -ts up, better to have loved and lost et etc, There are NO Guarantees for any of us.
Better to pair for what you think is love , than deny it & be hurt anyway, don’t we all take a gamble in the game of ‘ love’ certain that all will be okay ?

ineedamum
There have been many clues in Meghan’s behaviour that would appear to point to narcissism. One of the major clues is that a narcissistic person will remove their partner from their family, friends and all their support structures, thus making their partner completely dependent on themself. Harry has been removed from his family, his friends, his armed forces connections, his hobbies, in particular shooting, his country, his role, and his environment. I think he has been brainwashed by Meghan and that is what narcissistic people do to their partners.
My opinion only, but shared by ineedamum.

For OR against

But I am neither for against Meghan, as for her unusual behaviour , well I have come across many couples who have friends who are ‘worried’ about their choice of partner.
As the saying goes A Heart cannot be stolen, a heart will go where it wants to go.
secondly which pain is the worst, denying your love for another & not taken a chance or going for it knowing that it has half a chance( or more ) of being ok?

Bridgeit
Thank you for your reply. As a supporter of Meghan I thought perhaps you would have some understanding of her extremely unusual behaviour. For myself, I think it’s beyond weird. I can only conclude that Meghan wanted her friends to leak parts of her letter to the press that she says she wants ‘privacy’ from.

I would be interested to hear their point of view, but certainly wouldn't but the book. I will probably read extracts in the media.

Megan is physically a beautiful woman and Harry is besotted with her.I find it so annoying they use the phrases "in love" when this is very different to loving someone through thick and thin. Being in love is the easy part!

I suspect Megan is narcissistic and it may be a while before Harry realises what he has done.

Maddyone , I have no idea, but she is entitled to do as she pleases , just like the rest of us. Like it or not she is who she is.that is all any of us can be.

I was thinking maybe she’s a fan of chain letters! Remember the days when folk used to take the time to write and post them rather than risk the superstitious bad luck that would befall them.

I have no wish to read or buy a book about PH either, but there are many many folks that will wish to, which oils the wheels of publishers , booksellers . advertisers etc etc

If the charities gain so little Grany why were they so devastated when Diana dropped so many of hers?

Bridgeit
Why did Meghan send a copy of her letter to her father, to five friends?

I am sick of Harry's nauseating whinging. Yes, he lost his mother, but he has had a cossetted life compared to some people with bereavements. I know of somebody who had to take out a bank loan to bury her mother! I wish he would stop inviting people to the pity party! There's no way I would buy this book. I hope the pair of them just disappear.

Well it’s a relief to read that there are some ‘Good Parts’ regarding the existence of M&H , we could be forgiven for thinking they were monsters reading some of the comments & commentary about them on SM , in Newspapers & Magazines. But surprise, surprise they are just like the rest of us , a mixture of traits & circumstances.

Annie
You’re right of course, the letter would never have been exposed if the five ‘friends’ hadn’t leaked parts of the letter first. And I’d like one of the supporters of H+M to explain why she chose to send copies of the letter to five friends!!! Does that not suggest a very strange person? Who on earth sends a copy of their personal letters to their parents to several friends? I’m sorry, but it’s not normal behaviour, and because it’s not normal, it suggests that the sender has a personality disorder. It’s speculation I realise, but I’m allowed to speculate, and I don’t think I’m far from the truth, when you consider the short timeline of events over the last three years or so.

And charities say a royal patronage is extremely positive for them as it hugely increases donations.

Grany
How on earth do you know that? Answer, you don’t! Costs of individual visits are not released, I’ve never seen them anyway. Costs of their weddings are released.

Yes, but did the five friends only give the ‘good’ parts ?

Nothing would have been public if the five friends hadn’t
quoted parts of the letter

That was in answer to Grany
It seems to be out of sequence now

Yes, just bung them the money via HMRC in the form of BACS.

Let's suck any bit of joy out of life, shall we!

Actually I would read it! I wouldn’t buy it but would be interested to know what it is they are actually thinking. As I understand it their problem with the famous letter was that only the ‘bad’ parts were published to confirm the daily mail’s agenda. I do like to hear all sides of an argument before making my mind up.

It can cost !

Often vastly !

Guess work again

when a member of the royal family visits a charity, it can cost taxpayers tens of thousands of pounds – often vastly exceeding any increase in donations. The royals gain more in PR than the charities do in support.