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Throwing a book in the bin !

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dogsmother Tue 30-May-23 15:42:10

Camberwell Beauty by Jenny Eclair.
I bought it in a charity shop, began reading and got to a bit about a baby and was so disturbed by the writing I put the book in the bin. Has any one ever had a reaction like this?

Moggycuddler Thu 01-Jun-23 11:24:15

Even if I dislike a book thoroughly, I would put it in the bag for the charity shop. Everyone likes different things and what one person thinks is rubbish will give someone else enjoyment. I may make an exception for something that is extremely racist or bigoted etc.

HeavenLeigh Thu 01-Jun-23 11:25:52

Never thrown a book in the bin myself but plenty of books I’ve read that have been a big disappointment so they have gone to one of our local charity shops

pen50 Thu 01-Jun-23 11:26:24

Fairislecable

I was once recommended a book called ‘Shantaram’. It was a very thick paperback book. It was a really rubbish story of one persons life in India (I think). Sort of, then I did this and then I did that.

At that time I had never stopped reading a book until the end.

A couple of years later I met a chap poolside reading the same book we discussed it and he said he always finished a book so would plough on.

I knew he had finished it as I heard a grunt of disgust, he tore the book in half and threw it in the swimming pool!

(He did retrieve it and put in the bin).

Oh dear! I enjoyed Shantaram, and so did my father. We'd lived in Bombay when I was a child.

Irismarle Thu 01-Jun-23 11:26:31

The only book I have ever binned, and I own thousands, was ‘Let’s Go Play at the Adams’ because it was so disturbing I couldn’t bear to have it in the house. This was around 20 - 30 years ago. It is a truly horrible story of some children tying up and torturing their babysitter. I didn’t enjoy reading it at all but a sort of horrible fascination kept me going, and then I wished I hadn’t.

Livey Thu 01-Jun-23 11:27:17

lovebeigecardigans1955

Now that was like trying to push treacle upstairs.

That is a fantastic expression !!

RicePudding613794 Thu 01-Jun-23 11:36:09

I love US crime/forensics/pathology fiction and have read all the usuals including Patricia Cornwell, Tess Gerritsen, Alex Kava etc and love them. Really enjoyed one series of books by Karen Slaughter, featuring two main characters, which I absolutely loved, but the ending of one took me so much by surprise and shock, that I actually burst into tears and found myself shouting ‘No no no!’ I couldn’t believe an author would have done that and couldn’t bring myself to read any more in the series after that. I still have the books though, and couldn’t bin or pass them on, even though I will never revisit them.

cc Thu 01-Jun-23 11:48:08

I once read a Wilbur Smith book that was in a holiday home we visited and it was so full of gratuitous violence and torture that I really felt sick. I burnt it on the open fire in the cottage.
Please don't imagine I'm a prude but it was just hideous.

red1 Thu 01-Jun-23 11:48:11

growing up in a hostile family, where the main rule was obey and learn,i became a slave to books,For many years i believed everything i read, doubting my own judgement,very sad as i look back.It took me many years to trust myself and now if a book is really bad it goes in the bin!

Amalegra Thu 01-Jun-23 11:49:45

Haven’t ever binned a book but they have made their way pretty quickly to the charity shop if I don’t like them! The last one I can remember was a large tome entitled ‘Desire’ which purported to be a collection of short stories about different facets of said topic. I read a couple. was disappointed in the dreary lack of imagination shown and took it to Oxfam for someone else to ‘enjoy’. The experience has not encouraged me to waste money on books that are not my usual subject choices of fact, politics and history with the occasional novel by a previously enjoyed author.

Soniah Thu 01-Jun-23 11:52:39

I couldn't bin a book, I'd pass it to a charity shop where someone might find and love it

Saggi Thu 01-Jun-23 11:53:28

Someone found Middlemarch uninspiring and like pushing treacle uphill!?!?? I suggest you get a few Jilly Coopers….no thought needed there!🙄

janipans Thu 01-Jun-23 11:54:14

You could learn how to make a sort of sculpture by drawing a shape (say a heart) on the edge of the pages (opposite the spine) and then fold the pages in at the pencil mark and you get a 3D heart. At least then you will have learned something from the book! Pic of my effort attached

Nannan2 Thu 01-Jun-23 11:56:45

MOnica- is that the Olivia Oliphant of which there's another book about? I keep seeing that listed everywhere I can buy books online- never felt the need to buy it though but it's annoying that it seems to be everywhere grin

Nannan2 Thu 01-Jun-23 11:58:06

Aw that's cute janipanssmile

curlytops Thu 01-Jun-23 12:04:11

How terrible, throwing a book away! Give it to a charity shop they are always pleased of them.

Nannan2 Thu 01-Jun-23 12:05:00

Oh dear such a lot of (bad) books seem to be going to the charity shops🤔I used like a browse in charity shops for a new book-now maybe not as they will mostly be full of ones no good 😐🤨

margauxbordeaux Thu 01-Jun-23 12:05:48

I feel the same way. I take them to the 2nd hand shops run by Charities and also the Library. Never have binned a book.
Goes against my grain.

mousemac Thu 01-Jun-23 12:10:38

I binned Jeffrey Archer. He has absolutely no talent.

Matelda Thu 01-Jun-23 12:11:55

Why is everyone so keen to take books to charity shops with never a thought for the poor authors? They have put in the hard work but won’t get any royalties, should their books happen to sell again. And if they don’t resell, then the charity shop will have to pay for disposal. Surely it is better to take a deep breath and put unwanted books out for landfill, and give an author another chance of making a sale. Our council won’t take books for recycling because of the glue in the spine.

CazB Thu 01-Jun-23 12:23:33

I couldn't stand Son of Rosemary, which was the sequel to Rosemary's Baby by Ira Levin, which I couldn't put down. The sequel was so bad I couldn't believe it was the same author, I wanted to forget it as soon as possible.

M0nica Thu 01-Jun-23 12:29:41

Matelda you are assuming that people would buy a new book if a secondhand version wasn't availble, but I doubt that is so.

The market for new books and second hand books is entirely difference. Most new books are bought by someone who specifically wants that book, yes people do browse in new book shops, but usually to either wince at the price and put it back or note the details and add it to their Christmas/birthday list. I am not suggesting bookshops profiteer, printing and publishing books is expensive. I also exclude chains like WH Smith selling only the top 20 best sellers in paperback only at airports and stations

Secondhand book browsing, whether in a charity shop or secondhand book shop is an entirely different way of buying books, and often for different reasons. These booksellers are places of relaxation where you run your eye over a random of collection of books on a random selection of subjects, sold, often at casual purchase prices. It is also where you can pick up out of print books, books on arcane subjects.

My most recent was a book on 19th century social dancing, written in the 1930s by a highly regarded dancing teacher , who had danced many of them in his youth. Now when I read Jane Austen, Anthony Trollope or any book by a 19th century author, when the music strikes up on a page I understand the dance and its deep significance in relation to the plot.

My library - and it is extensive - consists almost entirely of secondhand books, most long out of print, bought after long searching or a serendipitous visit to a charity shop or secondhand book shop.

The author may not get royaltie, many are dead, but the charity gets income and the secodnhand bookseller, earns a living, probably employs staff and can pull visitors into their town to shop more widely. Look at what was started in Hay-on-Wye, by just one secondhand book seller!

DamaskRose Thu 01-Jun-23 12:30:20

Perfume by Patrick Suskind. It was a book club book and I couldn’t read beyond a few pages.

Applegran Thu 01-Jun-23 12:32:02

Many years ago I put a book into the bin because it was so misogynist - so demeaning to women. I cannot remember the title - but think it may have been written by father or son Amis.

DamaskRose Thu 01-Jun-23 12:32:08

M0nica

Matelda you are assuming that people would buy a new book if a secondhand version wasn't availble, but I doubt that is so.

The market for new books and second hand books is entirely difference. Most new books are bought by someone who specifically wants that book, yes people do browse in new book shops, but usually to either wince at the price and put it back or note the details and add it to their Christmas/birthday list. I am not suggesting bookshops profiteer, printing and publishing books is expensive. I also exclude chains like WH Smith selling only the top 20 best sellers in paperback only at airports and stations

Secondhand book browsing, whether in a charity shop or secondhand book shop is an entirely different way of buying books, and often for different reasons. These booksellers are places of relaxation where you run your eye over a random of collection of books on a random selection of subjects, sold, often at casual purchase prices. It is also where you can pick up out of print books, books on arcane subjects.

My most recent was a book on 19th century social dancing, written in the 1930s by a highly regarded dancing teacher , who had danced many of them in his youth. Now when I read Jane Austen, Anthony Trollope or any book by a 19th century author, when the music strikes up on a page I understand the dance and its deep significance in relation to the plot.

My library - and it is extensive - consists almost entirely of secondhand books, most long out of print, bought after long searching or a serendipitous visit to a charity shop or secondhand book shop.

The author may not get royaltie, many are dead, but the charity gets income and the secodnhand bookseller, earns a living, probably employs staff and can pull visitors into their town to shop more widely. Look at what was started in Hay-on-Wye, by just one secondhand book seller!

Completely in agreement M0nica

FannyCornforth Thu 01-Jun-23 12:33:04

Great post Monica! smile
And that book sounds fabulous.
My dad is a huge Austen fan, he’d enjoy that.
What’s the title / author please?