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Please help me find the book I would like to reread fifty years on

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GrannieWalker Mon 09-Feb-26 00:34:12

In my early twenties, the mid 1970s, I read a book the theme of which ( or at least the theme I took from it) is occasionally brought to mind in present day by a comment from a DS or DDiL. The book, American author I feel, starts with a young woman (in the USA?) who, right from the first paragraph, is not only thinking, but watching how well she is thinking with an overall aim, i thought, to be the best she can be by excelling in intellectual ability? When I read the book I believed she thought this would lead to a ‘happy life’. By the end of the book she's living on the european continent somewhere (Italy?), a content young woman day dreaming while caring for her young child. Well, maybe that’s the general beginning and end, but there’s an itsy bitsy wee chance that my memory could be playing tricks on me.
I tried an internet search but came up with nothing helpful. I’m hoping one of you can help before I feel my last marble is lost.

Sadgrandma Mon 09-Feb-26 07:43:08

Could it have been "Fear of Flying" by Erica Jong?

GrannieWalker Mon 09-Feb-26 17:22:19

Sadgrandma Thank you! It’s not Erica Jong, but next to Jong on my bookshelf was James … titled The Portrait of a Lady … and that’s it!!!
You found it for me! And I don’t think I’ve ever read Fear of Flying, so that’ll be next.
You’re as much a heroine for me as Isabel the Lady in the Portrait! Thank you

Shelflife Mon 09-Feb-26 17:47:46

Is' nt GN and amazing!?

Cambia Tue 10-Feb-26 14:02:36

Well done sadgrandma! And well done Granniewalker for describing the book so lucidly after such a long time!
Gran sent can be so good sometimes.

Lollipop1 Tue 10-Feb-26 14:15:04

OP I had the same problem.
I'm 79 and when I was 10 we read in class a book called "The Athenian Boy". I couldn't wait to read the next chapter with the class so I read the lot in an evening.
It was this book that has made me a lifelong reader. It's my only hobby and if I don't have a stack of unread books waiting for me, I feel the earth shift beneath my feet!
I searched and searched over the years for a copy but failed to find one until last summer, I tried again and eventually found it by accident. I had the wrong title as its called "Theras the story of an Athenian boy".
I have it, it's a well worn copy that once belonged to a little girl named Diana Daphne Hall written in her best writing in fountain pen.
I haven't read it, I'm happy to remember the story as a 10 year old me.
Now get your "Portrait of a Lady" and I for one know just how happy this will make you xxx

loopylindy Tue 10-Feb-26 14:50:27

Brilliant! Now - can anyone help me. My book was about the horror of the Somme I believe. I thought it was called The Rover but not so. Anyone out there able to help? (This was 60yrs ago!)

AuntieE Tue 10-Feb-26 15:28:40

loopylindy

Brilliant! Now - can anyone help me. My book was about the horror of the Somme I believe. I thought it was called The Rover but not so. Anyone out there able to help? (This was 60yrs ago!)

There are so unbelievably many books about the battle of the Somme that I doubt you will get far just googling the subject.

I think your best bet is to get a librarian at your public library to help you do a Boolian search.

You know, you read the book 60 years ago, so you are looking for a book printed before 1966 or thereabouts, and you believe the word rover was included in the title.

These facts: subject Battle of the Somme, date of publication before 1966, title may include the word Rover can be used as search peramiters.

Could Rover be the author's surname? Can you remember whether the book was a work of fiction, or of military history?

If you also can remember whether the book used British or American spelling that might help too, as all books, whether research or fiction are registered in the national library of the country of publication.

If the library cannot help, a local association of military historians might just be able to.

Good hunting, as Kipling's animals said.

monami Tue 10-Feb-26 17:11:41

jenny Eclairs, life , death and vanilla slices.... its brilliant

Mollygo Tue 10-Feb-26 17:26:07

Lollipop1

Theras the story of an Athenian boy^ was also one of my favourite books. I had a copy until we moved house and I’ve never seen it since.😥

Sadgrandma Tue 10-Feb-26 17:30:30

GrannieWalker, I was glad to be of use, albeit by accident. However, I think you will find A Fear of Fying a rather different book from A Portrait of a Lady, it’s quite sexual explicit if I remember! 🫢

Nannee49 Tue 10-Feb-26 18:04:51

Several years ago I posted on GN asking if anyone knew the story of a very poor orphan boy who was taken in by monks. I was obsessed by it as a child in the fifties but just couldn't remember the title.
A fab Gran, so sorry I can't recall her name, posted virtually straight away that maybe it was the Miracle of Marcellino. It was!!
I share your relief and joy GrannieWalkersmile

ballie Tue 10-Feb-26 20:23:43

My suggestion is 50 Years Ago by Walter Besant

Lollipop1 Tue 10-Feb-26 22:06:24

Mollygo

Lollipop1

Theras the story of an Athenian boy^ was also one of my favourite books. I had a copy until we moved house and I’ve never seen it since.😥

Oh Mollygo I'm sorry you lost your copy, I can't read the book. It's been so long since I did I'm frightened I'll break the spell. But I'm so happy to have it.

MollyNew Tue 10-Feb-26 22:28:51

I've been thinking about this all evening and I just have to ask - has anyone got a copy of "Fly Fishing" by J R Hartley?

Sorry, couldn't help myself grin

Trisha99 Tue 10-Feb-26 22:59:34

MollyNew

I've been thinking about this all evening and I just have to ask - has anyone got a copy of "Fly Fishing" by J R Hartley?

Sorry, couldn't help myself grin

There is a book called Fly Fishing by J R Hartley!
It’s a spoof, called in full
Fly Fishing: Memories of Angling Days.
Bought a copy for a friend who was a keen fisherman, unfortunately he didn’t get the joke as he didn’t remember the ads.

Mackir Wed 11-Feb-26 03:31:38

I am embarrased to ask because it was a childhood collection od stories. My fathwe bought it for me and i loved it so much. I dont know the name. But i rememeber the story where there was a king who left his to sons, the princes,

Mackir Wed 11-Feb-26 03:33:22

...a large sum of gold and one prince spent it and the other, wise one, buried it underground. Does anyone know this story?

MayBee70 Wed 11-Feb-26 11:10:21

Mine is a book about forced rhubarb. Lent it to a friend and never got it back. I must have bought it from a charity shop as have no recollection of buying it from a book shop. Going to Google it to see if anything pops up. Unfortunately my friend got Alzheimer’s and I couldn’t ask her to return the book. It’s quite a light autobiographical type book I think.

Lollipop1 Wed 11-Feb-26 14:08:03

Mackir

...a large sum of gold and one prince spent it and the other, wise one, buried it underground. Does anyone know this story?

AI brings up the Parable of the Talents. Matthew 25. 14-30
It's very similar to your story.

MollyNew Wed 11-Feb-26 20:16:14

Mackir

...a large sum of gold and one prince spent it and the other, wise one, buried it underground. Does anyone know this story?

Sounds to me like the Prodigal son.

GrannieWalker Wed 11-Feb-26 22:42:58

Lollipopl and all of you … smiling here seeing all your happy book memories smile
My favourites age 10, (my book bug source) were Mary O’Hara’s My Friend Flicka series. I reread a couple in lockdown, still loved them.
Waiting for my secondhand copy of Portrait of a Lady from Abebooks with bated breath (… not panting à la Erica Jong! wink Sadgrandma)