I have a friend who is the sole carer for his wife who has MS and recently diagnosed with dementia. He tells me he can get no help whatever from North Devon Social Services, even when she had a fall and hurt her hip he couldn't get an ambulance to come out and had to drive her to the hospital himself, they live in quite a rural area. He has now been told she will need special food as she has difficulty swallowing, for which there is no budget and which he will have to pay for. They have no family and he is completely on his own taking care of her. I have very little knowledge of social services but find it hard to understand why he cannot get any help at all. Does anyone have any advice I can pass on to him?
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. I meant to cross out stubborn in the above post.