I do Anya, but mum has coped very well up till now with me and a daily visit from carers for her meds to help. We are getting to the stage where she may not be able to do her meals - so far she has been having a Wiltshire Farm Food meal at lunch and in the evening (she doesn't like change). She loves to think she is in control although I do all the stuff in the background to keep things going but thankfully, she doesn't really register that she isn't doing it any more. Just occasionally she gets very frustrated and can be quite angry but mostly she is not unhappy. I am not sure if you would say it was lucky or not but she doesn't have much mobility and, while she can get around with her trolley inside she doesn't seem to want to go outside.
She seemed to use a lot of energy just 'being there' when my son and family came over last summer and has seemed very old, and very tired since but she is a blessing in our lives even with all the things she has to cope with.