Mums dementia is getting worse. The social worker did organise a day care placement for her just one day a week. Now mum is blind and a bit deaf and has continence issues. She had to go on their transport. As we live 70 miles away. She loved it the first 3 times but something upset her last week something to do with transport home. Well I suspect it was mainly in her mind and we cannot get to the bottom of it. Mum is very private and scared of nurses doctors and authority. Me and hubby both have some health issues. So we only go once a week. He sees his mum and dad who are self funding in a home. My mum is on her own in a housing association flat. When I went last week. She took a good while for me to convince her it was me. This morning she told me she was getting married. I asked who to. She told me it was my dad who passed over 30 years ago. She is getting married in June. Aaaaahhhhgggg, I hate this. No one seems to care. She cannot afford a care home, neither can we , we are saving for our own. She always tells people she is alright. I just feel there is a horrible disaster waiting to happen. I don’t need an answer to this post just needed to vent. I know many of you are going through the same, and worse. Thanks for reading.
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