My 46 year old brother has liver disease (which he will die from in next couple of years) deaf dumb, partial eyesight but copes with sight, autistic but not with official statement, but the biggest problem is lymphadema in thigh and buttocks and odema in lower legs. Legs are so swollen he can barely walk and falls, lower legs ulcerate and stream lymph, and need dressings and compression bandages. My sister and I, 60 and 61 have been caring for him, and trying to work. He recently had a fall and spent weeks in hospital, where he was on the 'Liver' ward, they had no idea how to care for the rest of him, he came out no longer able to care for himself at all, and is staying at my sisters house. She is doing her best, but he is incontinent, awkward, demanding but at the same time miserable. I do what I can three days a week, around work and travel commitments. He needs to go into care, for all our sakes, social services talk about assessments, need and finance, about getting teams of strangers into look after him, (he was living in a rented flat) though we know he would send them away. There is a bupa home, that is halfway between my house and my sisters, and brothers, but in a different local authority, apparently they could meet his needs but a top up would be required. My brothers savings, less than £9000 would last a month or two, and my sister and I have no savings. My question is, if we request a NHS continuing care assessment, how long would that take, would that pay for the Bupa care home/if he gets it? Would Portsmouth pay for him to live in another Hampshire town? Should we spend his savings and get him into the home while we wait for the assessment?