I agree Jane 10, the care is wonderful if you can get it but the hoops you have to go through to acquire it are beyond the capacity of ill, elderly people to negotiate. As I was suffering Carer Breakdown, I would not have been able to pursue alternative care for DH without the help and support of our DDs. Until you have lived it, i.t is difficult to envisage the difficulties of arranging the necessary appointments with Social Workers, lawyer, Doctor, ect. when you have to arrange alternative care for your LO who cannot be left home alone for even 5 minutes and is doubly incontinent and liable to wander off if taken with you.
The process of getting DH settled into a care home took from assessment in January till the end of July when he was admitted to the local Care Home on a 6 week trial basis. He has settled well there and the care is exemplary. There was a two week emergency respite arranged back in the January and thereafter 2x Carer visits am and pm every day.
The assigned Social Worker was kind and caring but she was a WASPI women, forced to work on past her expected retirement date, She had 2 month long breaks (off sick with stress and on returning chose to work p/t 2 days per week, thus causing lots of delays in progressing OH's care needs.
I believe that the on-going amalgamation of Health and Social Care Services, will lead eventually to a better more streamlined service, but the bureaucracy and half formed protocols have caused untold difficulties for those unfortunate enough to require care during this transition period. Also the introduction of Free Personal Care, whilst very welcome, has led to a surge in applications, without a commensurate rise in SW staff and Qualified Carers to meet the demand.
PS : I think there is a lot of misunderstanding surrounding FPC - it does cover home visits by Carers, but for Care Home residents it only covers the cost of actual care, whereas the huge 'hotel' charges element e.g. meals, accommodation, laundry etc. are still payable direct to the care home. In OH's case £177 per week of his £925 pw Fees is paid by the Council on behalf of the SG the rest has to be met from DH's pensions and savings. A further annoyance is that the DWP stopped DH's £88 per week Attendance Allowance as soon as he went into care. This only happens in Scotland. In England, self funders in care homes can continue to claim this benefit.