My 87 year old mum is poorly. She has a bad heart, intermittent breathing problems and osteoporosis arthritis in her back so she is pain most of the time even with pain killers. Amongst all that she is showing the start of age related dementia, the latest is where she hides dirty washing and incontinence pads in drawers but is not aware she has done it. She refuses carers and refused to go into residential care. It’s just me. With everything going on I am getting concerned what will happen if she gets much worse. We had the ambulance out last week because of breathing problems but they wouldn’t take her to hospital obviously. Living with us is not possible. Does anyone have any suggestions how to get through this.
Feeling uneasy with tradespeople in the house.