Nanna58 I do so feel for you having gone through this with my OH plus us both having cancer. Life is wonderful but also very hard at times and this is one of them. We don’t choose to be carers and in my case I don’t think I am temperamentally suited to it, patience not being my strong suit, but what can we do?
All good advice above and do look after yourself, making time for things you enjoy and of course it’s not selfish but sensible as two people can go downhill otherwise.
My daughter would take over for a few days and I would go and stay with a friend, what a difference a break makes!
When my OH became confused, the best advice is to always agree with them, unless they are in danger.
I wish I had had more patience, but I’m not a saint, none of us are and I had to think of myself too.
Thinking of you and if I could send you a shot of extra strength in some way, I would! ???