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Care Home in Thailand

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Hetty58 Sat 15-Jan-22 21:53:43

I found this:

theweek.com/articles/837253/are-luxury-cruise-ships-new-retirement-homes

Hetty58 Sat 15-Jan-22 21:49:56

Thanks Doodledog. M0nica, I don't know exactly how many. A couple I know sometimes work as dance teachers on cruises - and get a free cruise.

Marmite32 Sat 15-Jan-22 21:48:47

Yes - but I would be near my dear family.

Calistemon Sat 15-Jan-22 21:45:00

DH just told me about this.

I threatened to send him there if he doesn't turn over from the snooker.

Doodledog Sat 15-Jan-22 21:43:57

Hetty a lot of elderly people on permanent cruises? Really? How many? What proportion of all those in care? What is the source of your information.

I was told this by a friend who spent a lot of time as an entertainer on cruise ships. He said exactly what Hetty said - that it was cheaper than a care home and more luxurious, and that a lot of people do it.

M0nica Sat 15-Jan-22 21:40:46

No, I cannot imagine anything worse. You would be in a far country where everything looks different, feels different, where the carers however kind and competent wouldn't be ableto share any moments of contact over tv programmes and common cultural links.

One of my family went into a very nice care home in the UK where all the staff were Phillipinas, they were lovely people but there was no one in the home who had any experience of our ways of living, how our family life was, education system and certainly knew nothing of tv programmes over the last 50 years.

I was glad that my relation needed to move to somewhere near his family where the carers were more mixed, with Philipinas, but also carers of different ethnicity, most of whom had spent their lives in the UK.

I think the whole idea is quite offensive, treating old people as so much lumber, to be farmed out to anywhere in the world that can look after them cheaply, without any consideration of their interests, family connections, where no-one can visit except at great expense - and what will happen when they die? Will their families have to pay to bring their bodies back to the UK for burial or will they be consigned to Thai crematorium for an anonymous cremation.

Hetty a lot of elderly people on permanent cruises? Really? How many? What proportion of all those in care? What is the source of your information.

Marmite32 Sat 15-Jan-22 21:35:45

Our eldest and wife live and work there. Eldest grandson (19) has his work placement there.
I wouldn't be opposed if it gets to that.

Kathy73 Sat 15-Jan-22 21:33:38

There was a programme about this on Radio 4 recently

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0bc6nt6

Hetty58 Sat 15-Jan-22 21:29:08

There are a lot of elderly people on permanent cruises. Some have their personal carers with them. The food, services and entertainment are top class, a doctor and nurses are always on board - and it's cheaper than residential care.

Grannybags Sat 15-Jan-22 21:15:03

No. I wouldn't want to die in a different country

sodapop Sat 15-Jan-22 20:39:42

I have read about this care home before wintersday on the face of it things look good. However I would like to investigate more, what are the hospital facilities like, what happens if your needs change etc. I think it's owned by British people isn't it.

wintersday Sat 15-Jan-22 19:15:02

"Would you send a loved one to live in a care home 6,000 miles away in Thailand? It may sound callous, until you read about the £42,000 per year, 5 star service in the sun and loving attention of staff (at a fraction of UK costs)".

I have just read about this - I am 65, nearly 66, in reasonable health, no family and separated from my husband for 13 years but still on good terms. I am honestly thinking that I wouldnt mind living in a care home in Thailand.

(When my Mum got dementia she came to live with me for 5 years until she passed - I didnt want her to go in a home).

(I have visited elderly friends in local nursing homes and have seen and heard things that were not right).

I own my home - I dont want to do equity release so thinking to sell at some stage, not yet and then move to Thailand. Bet I dont even have the guts to do it, but sitting here now on my own, not spoken to anyone all day, not been out, then maybe being somewhere warm with kindness and care seems very appealing.