Sadly I moved into a 'retirement flat for over 55's independant living ' when I returned to the UK ....HOWEVER there are now so many really elderly people moving in (relatives don't want them in a care home as then there would be no money left when they die, and also the possibility the relative would have to pay for the care home !!_ however, there are now so many people living here that are over 80 and having carers in ...this is not what these flats are for, but what can you do ?! there is NO care or social activity here and some elderly with no relatives are simply left on their own 24/7 which is hard when they can no longer go out ...things like day care are no longer available from social services and they are very lonely. There are also new blocks of retirement independent living apartments in our district which are over £400,000 to buy (owned but also leasehold) that do provide (for a fee of £700 plus, per month) plus other charges, maintenance, insurance, paying staff etc ...these charges do include the provision of a cleaner once a week, plus they have a restuarant and activities lounge ...nice for those who can afford it and are not ready for the care home ! but not many people have the sort of money that costs ! i e service charges around £3,000 a year (not including the £700 a month charges), also you have to pay your own council tax, insurance, electricity, etc ) and these are the CHEAPEST range for over 70's available in our area ...which is one of the cheapest areas in the UK ...........impossible !