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CUTTING HOURS OF WORK

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NotSpaghetti Mon 14-Apr-25 11:54:53

Apologies Donenow1

I read into your post that your daughter was the primary reason and that your husband's situation added to it.

Am seriously thinking of cutting hours to help Daughter ( she does have a lovely partner as well) and as well as that, the Care needs of my own partner are increasing.

Donenow1 Sun 13-Apr-25 22:06:36

NotSpaghetti

Be wary of cutting hours to "help" your daughter. She and her partner are a team and may not want or need this.

Especially as you are caring for your partner who you say is getting increasingly more in need of help... He is your family commitment at the moment.

Partner is actually the very main reason I'm thinking of cutting.. I'd like to be around for Daughter but only if she wants or needs it but regarding my own partner there is coming a time where cutting of hours may well be the best way forward... when that comes I shall also look into carers allowance.

NotSpaghetti Sun 13-Apr-25 21:14:53

Be wary of cutting hours to "help" your daughter. She and her partner are a team and may not want or need this.

Especially as you are caring for your partner who you say is getting increasingly more in need of help... He is your family commitment at the moment.

kittylester Sun 13-Apr-25 21:07:21

Get a benefits check - AgeUk are really good.

Do you get Carer's Allowance?

Harris27 Sun 13-Apr-25 20:22:57

Just speak to your manager I’m sure they’ll want to keep a valued member of staff.

Skydancer Sun 13-Apr-25 20:14:25

I can’t follow this.

LOUISA1523 Sun 13-Apr-25 20:13:26

Have a look at your works flexible working policy...that will give you guidance on how to go about requesting a reduction in hours

Grannylynj Sun 13-Apr-25 20:11:25

Just to be honest really

Donenow1 Sun 13-Apr-25 20:03:55

Hello Everyone. A little bit of advice needed. Daughter expecting a baby later on this year, I'm also a Carer for my partner. Am seriously thinking of cutting hours to help Daughter ( she does have a lovely partner as well) and as well as that, the Care needs of my own partner are increasing. I have been thinking about this for some time. How much notice and how would you go about cutting hours. I do absolutely understand that my employment could well refuse and in that case I would have enough savings to see me through a year whilst I found something very part time. I do like my job and have lovely work chums but due to family commitments I'm going to have to cut down. Any thoughts gratefully received. Thanks all.