I am main carer for my partner. He is paralysed and we employ an agency to provide 2 carers twice a day to help with his personal care. All our carers are lovely, the one we see every day has my personal mobile contact so that if I am out or running late I can send her a text to warn her and let her know where to access a key. we don't have or want a key safe. Everything worked perfectly until last week when the carer thought she had sent me a message but mistakenly sent it to her manager instead. It was a perfectly innocent message, not rude or anything about the agency. She was hauled into see the manager and the outcome has been that she has been told to delete the contact with me. I would add that this is my personal mobile, not the client's, my partner. The outcome is that it will now be very difficult to come and go as I please when I am able. The agency is pretty bad at answering their own phones, so difficult to ask them to pass messages on and they are pretty awful at supplying their carers for the same time each day. Any thoughts?
Last letters become first - March 26
WORD ASSOCIATION - 9th May 2026


