I think that sometimes it is the families who have been 'comfortably off' who suffer most when misfortune suddenly forces them onto benefits. As an example the man who lost his driving licence, and thereby his job and his company car as a result of an RTA that he caused. The wife was a stay at home mum with 2 toddlers and one on the way. They had a big mortgage, and maxed out on the credit card, with no savings to speak of. Pride ensured that they kept up a show of being fine and they had no previous experience of cooking from scratch or beans on toast with an egg on top for tea, had never been in a Thrift Shop, were used to a bottle of wine in the evenings, dining with friends and monthly visits to the hair salon - you get the picture.
I know another couple who, in a similar situation, made the best of it, pulled together, sold stuff on e.bay, etc. etc but the first couple collapsed under a mountain of debt, guilt, mental health problems, drinking - a whole family split apart.