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Doodldog, probably unclear why it’s that much of an issue. If you are done with something then you are done with it. Do not begrudge people who get something extra out of a voluntary role.
It’s actually better than sitting around at the back of my wardrobe or cupboard.
I wouldn’t be too quick to judge maybe.
So people should have no say where their donations go because they are done with them? No, I disagree. I choose the charity shop I use based on my personal preference, for instance. I choose whether to sell on eBay, what to donate, what to put on Freecycle and what to take to the tip. It’s not a case of ‘oh, let’s let someone with time to volunteer have another new coat for £1’ instead of it selling for £10 and the money going to charity.
If you read my posts you would know that my own mother volunteered until recently, and ‘her’ shop had a policy of allowing volunteers to take what they wanted before the items were priced or put out. Another volunteer would price them, knowing that their friend was planning to buy them. The policy was not explicitly stated, but custom and practice was to price much lower for colleagues, who then got a further discount. The staff knew no different, were open about it to friends and family, and saw no harm in what they were doing. I am not suggesting that it was dishonest, as it was made clear in their induction that this was the system. What troubles me is that the donors had no idea that Gladys had 20 coats in her cloakroom, that all new shoes in size 6 were to be left for Betty’s perusal before being displayed, or that there was a book in the staff room saying that Elspeth was looking for an evening dress in a size 14, preferably beaded, and that Beryl’s granddaughter was expecting again, so please put all new baby items on the table until she’s in on Thursday. All of that is fictional but based on fact.
Do you think that if there were a notice to this effect on the shop door, people might have taken their donations elsewhere? Don’t you believe that they should have had the right to choose whether to donate in those circumstances, or take things to the shop along the road where the policies were akin to those in BlueBelle’s one?