I quite agree with the first part of your post Charlotta, but want to query your statement about the internet.
I thought (and as I am building an energy efficient house, have been looking at this stuff) that computers used minimal energy. I suppose that as we use computers a lot, and fly rarely, it may add up.
Maybe we should rate items by their usefulness per energy unit!
We always watch the Royal Society Xmas lectures on the TV. They did one on computers a couple of years ago and I found it so helpful.
When I did Alevel physics we thought ourselves so lucky to have the use of a calculator: the size of an old-fashioned type-writer, it sat in the secretary's office and we would go in with all our figures written down, type them in, and a piece of paper, like a till receipt, printed out the results for us!