I think it depends on all sorts of things. Personalities, proximity, time available to spend helping or visiting etc. and how many other grandparents/step gps are involved.
I'm not competitive at all and I just join in when I'm asked and do what I can. I love them all and they know it,and so far it works.
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. She met my DD2 when she was 5 months pregnant with her first DD but MiL chose not to make further contact! Apparently she is close to her own DD and is v involved with her family. She lives in midlands & DD2 is South
