I am officially a pensioner as today I activated my state pension! Apparently I could have been collecting it since January so a bit of back pay due ...how nice as it softens the blow of admitting I am a certain age on the outside whilst in my head I am about 30!!!
My mother who had left school at 14 was a wise woman though she was younger than me now when she died. She always said it is not the experience you have but what you learn from it that counts which is , of course, true! I have always tried to learn from experience..good or bad .. but sometimes fall into the behaviour pattern trap!
No Faye don't think I qualify as 'mature' sounds like really good cheese or wine! I like senior even if it does make me sound like the 6th form. Experienced, yes sounds good but doesn't specify what kind of expereince. So SEP works fine for me!
I am happy to have a label as long as it is one I like. Never want to be called grown up though as that implies being sensible and I am far too old to be that!
Why do people have a tag, especially the older and wiser ones? I can't think what thirty or forty year olds are called. Why do people have to be described as anything except babies, children, teens and adults?
If they have to describe an older age I prefer mature, because I am mature, sometimes!
I don't think you are necessarily experienced or wise just because you are old. I can think of a number of grumpy, narrow-minded, set-in-their ways, old-fashioned, know-all pensioners.
I think I read somewhere recently that: Pensioner is out; Silver Surfer is out; OAP is out; Elderly is out; Older people is in but is on the way out....... Why is it so difficult to call us something? Why is there a need to call us something?Why isn't 'adult' enough? If I've got to be something then I might consider a Third Ager
With the fortnight weve had, health scares coupled with unimaginative doctor (thankfully the specialist was better informed and alls well)...hows about 'survivor'?