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nanaej Mon 02-Jul-12 16:50:02

I am officially a pensioner as today I activated my state pension! Apparently I could have been collecting it since January so a bit of back pay due ...how nice as it softens the blow of admitting I am a certain age on the outside whilst in my head I am about 30!!!

jeni Sun 08-Jul-12 13:03:54

grin

AlisonMA Sun 08-Jul-12 12:53:39

jeni that's why I think it is a suitable word! Who knows what we have been up to but it sounds good!smile

nanaej Sun 08-Jul-12 12:15:47

My mother who had left school at 14 was a wise woman though she was younger than me now when she died. She always said it is not the experience you have but what you learn from it that counts which is , of course, true! I have always tried to learn from experience..good or bad .. but sometimes fall into the behaviour pattern trap!

jeni Sun 08-Jul-12 12:04:49

alisonmawhat sort of experience?
Ah! That would be telling wink

AlisonMA Sun 08-Jul-12 11:59:00

No Faye don't think I qualify as 'mature' sounds like really good cheese or wine! I like senior even if it does make me sound like the 6th form. Experienced, yes sounds good but doesn't specify what kind of expereince. So SEP works fine for me!

I am happy to have a label as long as it is one I like. Never want to be called grown up though as that implies being sensible and I am far too old to be that!

Faye Sat 07-Jul-12 23:23:47

Why do people have a tag, especially the older and wiser ones? I can't think what thirty or forty year olds are called. Why do people have to be described as anything except babies, children, teens and adults?

If they have to describe an older age I prefer mature, because I am mature, sometimes! hmm

nanaej Sat 07-Jul-12 22:29:06

petallus agree but sounds better than some other collective nouns for People Of a Certain Age! POCAs!!

petallus Sat 07-Jul-12 22:09:28

I don't think you are necessarily experienced or wise just because you are old. I can think of a number of grumpy, narrow-minded, set-in-their ways, old-fashioned, know-all pensioners.

Perhaps more males than females though!

Ella46 Sat 07-Jul-12 22:05:10

"Wrinklies with Attitude" grin am on a roll now grin

Ella46 Sat 07-Jul-12 22:03:59

"Wise Ones" ?

nanaej Sat 07-Jul-12 21:16:02

'Elders' suggests wisdom as well as age! As in the elders of the village etc! hmm

Nonu Sat 07-Jul-12 20:14:39

Lgrinve "senior" can"t help it !pensioner sounds sooo old ,. baby boomers 1111[smile smile]

jeni Sat 07-Jul-12 18:07:35

VEP very experienced people. Just seen on another thread! Like that. It describes us perfectly. Smugsmile

Anagram Sat 07-Jul-12 17:58:07

It does rather imply rank...hmm
And some other groups may object.

goldengirl Sat 07-Jul-12 17:53:42

Hmmm. Senior to me smacks of being back in the 6th form smile

j04 Sat 07-Jul-12 11:02:27

'senior'

sorry

j04 Sat 07-Jul-12 11:02:09

Definitely 'senio'r for me.

petallus Sat 07-Jul-12 10:59:46

OW! Old woman is good enough for me. Don't want any tactful euphemisms - too ageing and patronising.

AlisonMA Sat 07-Jul-12 10:46:35

How about SEP? I think it has a certain ring about it. Senior Experienced Person

jeni Fri 06-Jul-12 21:52:24

That's good!

goldengirl Fri 06-Jul-12 21:48:30

I think I read somewhere recently that: Pensioner is out; Silver Surfer is out; OAP is out; Elderly is out; Older people is in but is on the way out....... Why is it so difficult to call us something? Why is there a need to call us something?Why isn't 'adult' enough? If I've got to be something then I might consider a Third Ager

Grindos Fri 06-Jul-12 21:37:26

S till H anging I n T here?

jeni Fri 06-Jul-12 20:58:34

VERY GOOD!
Like that!

HildaW Fri 06-Jul-12 20:55:53

With the fortnight weve had, health scares coupled with unimaginative doctor (thankfully the specialist was better informed and alls well)...hows about 'survivor'?

jeni Fri 06-Jul-12 19:55:45

How about wise elder?