Sorry Butternut not concentrating - I was watching the tennis and backing out of the door to pick the dog up so wrote it in a hurry. I was thinking of the way the offer of counselling is too readily suggested in some cases, so inflicting was the wrong word. Same with the stuck word - some people who find themselves going round and round in circles over their abuse experiences are often coping perfectly well in most areas of their life, but may decide they need to get some counselling to enable themselves to move forward - what's right for some would not be for others.
Also, I would put out a plea for this particular mum - who knows how they would behave after a shock like this - maybe she will regret talking to the papers further down the line, but she's very much on the receiving end of this awful experience, and needs understanding, not being pilloried because of what she's done. She may see this as being a way to help the family, on balance, and not something else for the child to endure.