Hello Worlie , why don't you try the WI ? It really isn't all Jam and Jerusalem !! I have been a member for 30+ yrs and have never in all that time ( or before ) made a pot of jam .and we never at our meetings sing Jerusalem .We have monthly meetings each has a speaker with an interesting topic , but best of all are the many groups formed by the members . Craft , book club , play reading , walking group , lunch club , theatre visits and many others . It really is up to you how involved you become . Give it a try , we are quite a friendly bunch if you are - GOOD LUCK