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What is worth your anger?

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Greatnan Fri 17-Aug-12 16:58:51

Not even mild irritation, Barrow - I have frequently done it myself!
I tend to treat inconsiderate drivers and rude sales assistant with a resigned shrug - they don't come into my range of things that make me angry.

soop Fri 17-Aug-12 16:58:26

...and folk who dump their garbage on grass verges...

AlisonMA Fri 17-Aug-12 16:57:58

I'm with soop and that includes disregards for GNers' feelings too. I still don't subscribe to the idea that everyone likes the rudeness/robustness/arrogance, call it whatever you like, that is sometimes displayed on here. It shows a lack of empathy and courtesy. Such posters seem to think they are in some way superior to others. Thank goodness such posters are few and far between.

Bags Fri 17-Aug-12 16:53:18

Nah, that last one's not worth getting in a tizz about, barrow. Besides, we all do it! grin

Barrow Fri 17-Aug-12 16:50:58

Sorry that should have been I agree with Greatnan (perhaps I should add people who don't read posts properly to the list!!)

soop Fri 17-Aug-12 16:49:43

Cruelty. Bigotry. Greed. Tyranny. Utter disregard for another's rights and feelings.

Barrow Fri 17-Aug-12 16:49:10

I agree with most of your list jeni and have a couple of my own:

When someone is judged by the way they look rather than for what they are
Inconsiderate behaviour
Being ignored by shop assistants
Bad drivers who take risks and put other road users in danger
Telephone cold callers (and even worse the silent calls!)
Call centres manned by people I can't understand (OK that may be my problem as I think I am going a little bit deaf!)

Many more things make me angry but I have to watch my blood pressure!

Bags Fri 17-Aug-12 16:45:49

With you all the way, there, gn. I think that'll do me too. Oh no! Another clique! wink

jeni Fri 17-Aug-12 16:39:56

Oh! And him next door!

jeni Fri 17-Aug-12 16:35:00

Blatant liars and cheats!

kittylester Fri 17-Aug-12 16:30:21

This looks as though it will be an interesting thread!

Greatnan Fri 17-Aug-12 16:20:17

I don't get angry if somebody disagrees with my honestly held views, even when those of us who have the confidence to engage in reasoned debate are labelled arrogant. I don't get angry when I am 'accused' of being a leftie, a guardian-reader, or even when it is implied that I am part of a clique or a gang of bullies because some other members agree with my views.

I don't get angry when I see a misplaced apostrophe, or a spelling or grammar mistake.

I get angry when I see young men and women being returned to their parents in flag-draped coffins.
I get angry when children are starving in countries that spend billions on arms.
I get angry when people in positions of trust abuse children or vulnerable adults.
I get angry when their employers or superiors cover up their foul deeds.
I get angry when girls/women are beaten, tortured and murdered because they don't conform to their parents' cultural norms.
I get angry when any minority group is subjected to discrimination.
I get angry when I read how many people, mostly with mental health problems, have died in police custody.
I get angry when the religious beliefs of a minority are able to influence laws which affect the whole population.
I get angry when mistaken medical information is used to put lives at risk or people are denied proper treatment for religious reasons.
I get angry when I read of the sick and disabled being terrified almost to the point of suicide by the threat of having their benefits withdrawn.
I get angry when the richest get tax reductions.
I get angry when contracts are not put out to tender honestly.
I get angry when well-fed, smug and rich politicians claim to be feeling the same pain as the people who have lost their jobs and cannot find others.
I get angry when somebody I consider to be a war criminal earns yet another £100,000 for a one hour 'inspirational' talk.
I get angry when so few rapists are convicted and I get very angry when women make false rape claims.
I am angry that the surgeon who ruined the lives of my daughter and at least a dozen other women was allowed to continue working when there were 75 complaints against him between 1999 and 2008.
I get angry that there appeared to be no system in place for picking up on his dismal statistics and that none of his colleagues 'blew the whistle'.
I am angry that he has never apologised.

You could say I am a very angry person but not because of some continuing hostility from a person who has never met me - that is not even mildly irritating because it is predictable enough to be amusing.

So, what do you consider to be worthy of your anger?