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gracesmum Sun 07-Oct-12 18:12:28

Yesterday I found myself giving sideways glances at any ladies of a certain age wearing anything which could remotely be described as purple!!
And on our way back to the station we saw lots of "girlies" up in Brum for a night out with legs up to their armpits ,vertiginous heels (and certainly no vests) looking like they were about to audition for the X factor. This morning I met a rather grand elderly-ish lady in our village shop wearing typical "no nonsense" clothes - sensible shoes, good thick tights/stockings, waterproof gilet and a very serviceable skirt of a very decent length, a bit of a social stereotype.The sort who says "It's getting cold, throw another dog on the bed" smile
And I wondered how much what we wear is a cliche - or a statement about who or what we perceive ourselves to be? I am also thinking of middle aged (or older) politicians or slebs in jeans while our grandfathers at the same age would have been in suits with hats, female slebs showing far more flesh than they ougher at their age or the ubiquitous teenage uniform of opaque tights under denim shorts,Ugg boots, big hoop earrings and long blonde hair.
What do your clothes say about you? Or do you (maybe unconsciously) dress to a stereotype?
(Willowy blonde, about 5'10 and the right side of 50 apart)

jeni Sun 07-Oct-12 20:14:12

lilygran I agree about the temp. However I never have ice in drinks til the temp reaches 80F

crimson Sun 07-Oct-12 20:37:16

Years ago a friend descibed my look as 'hippy chic' but I now combine it with a touch of 'bag lady'. No, actually a lot of bag lady. My look is limited by having to wear either ugg boots or trainers [mostly trainers sad].

Lilygran Sun 07-Oct-12 20:37:27

jeni wine

Greatnan Sun 07-Oct-12 20:45:57

My gilet is bright yellow and hangs over my driving seat so the police can see I have one - compulsory in France. It was only €3. I pronounce it as gee -lay, soft g but more of a zhe....

gracesmum Sun 07-Oct-12 21:05:45

I'd say "zhee-lay" too not to be confused with the people who make razors for men!

Marelli Sun 07-Oct-12 21:17:27

Sister-in-law's pronunciation: Gillet - like Gullet but with an i grin

harrigran Sun 07-Oct-12 21:28:09

I often wear 1 carat diamond with polyester blouse and don't give a stuff johanna. I often wear very expensive outfits and the end result is the same, I am still a 66 year old who is overweight. I used to like a gilet but they tend to be a bit tight over my ample bosom.

jeni Sun 07-Oct-12 21:28:25

Bedtime for me! Washing all done. Files for Wednesday read.havent got the ones for mon and tues so will have to deal with on day!shock

jeni Sun 07-Oct-12 21:31:40

FORGOT MY moon
Night all!

harri are these the same ample bosoms as in nellies pub?

DON'T FORGET TO SIGN UP FOR THE HALLOWEEN PARTY.!

harrigran Sun 07-Oct-12 21:37:16

Don't know jeni I have never been in nellie's.

jeni Sun 07-Oct-12 22:36:08

shock

JessM Mon 08-Oct-12 06:53:35

When does a waistcoat become dignified by the term gilet I wonder?
I guess that a waterproof one, while not waterproofing the whole body, could waterproof the boob area and possibly backside as well if long enough.
I have two in my -wardrobe- clothes collection. One is a black Kaliko rather dressy one, that I have only worn once or twice. A mistake, bought in the days when i used to shop in kaliko (less money now, and it has gone down drain in terms of cute jackets that suited my shape, i just happen to notice). It is black with a fluffy furry edging, that I think emphasises the peary ness of my pear shape . And it just doesnt suit me.
The other one is a Swazi, khaki affair in suedey material. Long story. This was a gift from DS2. Swazi is a great NZ make - they do hunting and outdoor stuff. Whole nation scandalised when the army did not give them the clothes contract. If you are ever travelling north from Wellington, drop off and see them in Levin. Particularly if you are going pig hunting need to stock up on camouflage. (wow, is that how it is spelt, with an o in it, thank you spellchecker). Or anything in the great outdoors.
So DS2 bought this garment as a thank you xmas pressie for the long suffering wife of his old hunting buddy in Wanganui. She had put him up and fed him lots of times. It said on it Size 12. Turns out it was AGE 12. So DS left with garment that did not fit. With my narrow ribcage and small boobs I could just get into it. A nice windproof layer on a chilly day.

kittylester Mon 08-Oct-12 07:31:17

We started calling a gilet a gillet as a joke because a friend does (seriously) and now we can't stop.
My clothes indicate a very confused state of mind. Top ranging from Sainsbury's through to jaegar (sale!!) trousers likewise. Landsend and Boden are in there too. I like to pretend that I look like a vaguely on trend granny but not mutton dressed up as lamb! If I wear anything too 'old' my three daughters would soon tell me. It is quite stressful grin

Bags Mon 08-Oct-12 07:36:03

Got sidetracked to other things. If a garment doesn't keep your arms dry, what use is its waterproofness is what I was thinking?, I don't regard a garment as waterproof unless it keeps me dry. I suppose, what they mean is that it's made of waterproof fabric. It wouldn't be a lot of use in western Scotland – one would still get wet and, therefore, cold.

Pointless garment if waterproofness is an issue.

Gilets/weskits/tank tops/woteva are for extra body warmth, not to keep you dry. Wearing a non-waterproof one under a mackintosh would make sense to me. Wearing a waterproof gilet makes no sense at all.

Just sayin'.

Bags Mon 08-Oct-12 07:38:07

kitty, I was thinking along similar lines about my clothes. They range from charity shop bargains to Peruvian Connection hand made works of art. Today I'm wearing some old jogging pants of DH's. It's hard to believe he ever fitted into them! wink

Bags Mon 08-Oct-12 07:44:32

BTW, my name derives from "baggythecrust" (the end, or 'heel' as it's known in Scotland, of the loaf), but my first husband used to say that he thought I'd been born in baggy trousers, so there's that as well wink. Love loose garments, but not 'flappy' ones that get in the way. Mainly, I dress "neat and practical". If I put a formal jacket on I look seriously smart. It's quite scary because it doesn't seem to have that effect on other people confused

Bags Mon 08-Oct-12 07:46:37

I mean, some people who wear formal jackets don't look smart at all. I keep wondering how they do it.

DD and I like "Buffs" as headwear. Mine always look neat, but she get hers on looking casual and sort of arty. I asked her how she did it yesterday. She just shrugged and said: "I just shove it on". Beginning to think I don't have a "shove it on" gene.

Gally Mon 08-Oct-12 07:49:00

I have a couple of wardrobes full of clothes of all descriptions, mostly bought compulsively but I probably wear 5% of them - jeans, jeans, jeans and more jeans, blue sweaters and of course, the infamous gilet - blue with white spots and lined in a delightful pink. I hate wearing skirts as there's too much round the waist - knickers, tights, waistband of skirt; I feel claustrophobic and the tights always seem to dip at the crotch! Basically, I don't much like wearing clothes, but I like to acquire them hmm

glassortwo Mon 08-Oct-12 07:51:38

I never seem to intend to buy clothes but if I happen past something it just jumps out at me, I dont seem to any style what so ever as the Scottish GN with know. grin

My DD MIL used to have an advocat bathroom suite.

Greatnan Mon 08-Oct-12 07:53:33

I am still wearing out some very expensive clothes I bought when I was working, along with my Decathlon €3.50 tee shirts.

My sister is a great reader, and often uses words she has seen written but has never heard spoken. I liked it when she told me someone was 'dead chag - grinned' because of some slight. I do put her right as she has asked me to do so - I wouldn't normally dream of correcting anybody else's pronunciation.

To digress a little - I think that men who wear business suits with an open-necked shirt and no tie look as though they are trying to 'get down with the kids'. I think Blair started it, but Cameron does it now. It does not convince me that he is a man of the people!

Gally Mon 08-Oct-12 07:59:40

Greatnan It tells me that there is no respect and as you rightly say - Blair started it sad

Butternut Mon 08-Oct-12 08:08:51

In my head I wear keds, straight-leg/slim leg jeans, t-shirts (layered usually) and almost always some kind of earings, sometimes my stone pendant and am tall and slim. Sometimes an overshirt/ thin linen thing.

In reality it's exactly the same except I do not have long slim legs and perfectly sized boobs, I am - damn - thickening around the waist, and my tummy is becoming plumply rounded!

In the winter it's a warmer combination. In the summer cooler, and a dress occasionally.

Always plain colours.

Tomboy

Mr. B calls it American West Coast gardener of a certain age look - (whatever rocks his boat grin )

Nanadogsbody Mon 08-Oct-12 08:21:51

I've become invisible over the last few year so no point in dressing up. Like Gally I tend to wear jeans all the time, dressing them up or down depending on the occasion. Partly it is pure practicality eg if I'm on the floor with the grandchildren and for comfort and warmth and also a reaction against the type of clothes I had to wear when working.
My clothes say I'm retired, enjoying it, and I'll wear what I damn we'll please now grin

Nanadogsbody Mon 08-Oct-12 08:23:10

Well not we'll ....who is in charge me or the iPad? hmm

flowerfriend Mon 08-Oct-12 08:32:20

When I went to a concert the other evening several friends looked amazed then told me how ' chic' I looked. (I live in France, hence the chic). I waswearing my best-at-the-moment dress instead of my usual jeans/trousers and t-shirts. I am off in five minutes for a visit to the UK with a bag packed full of M&S socks, nickers and t-shirts. What does it say about me? Gawd knows.