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Do you ever feel intimidated?

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Nanadogsbody Fri 12-Oct-12 14:04:39

I'm creating this thread reluctantly but I do have to say that I've been considering leaving GN.

Bags Tue 16-Oct-12 17:13:19

Hello, sel, and welcome smile. Nice to see your head above the parapet wink.

crimson, agreed.

Lilygran Tue 16-Oct-12 17:10:21

The feuding was incredibly polite!

Sel Tue 16-Oct-12 17:07:41

Whooooo! I just joined Gransnet today...at first blush it seemed such a calm, tranquil place - then I read this. I gather this isn't the norm - feuding Grandmas?

I hope everything settles down, not sure I'm up to sticking my head above the parapet yet.

soop Tue 16-Oct-12 16:54:12

Well said, crimson flowers

crimson Tue 16-Oct-12 16:44:37

I've been on several forums where, after a while people start referring to 'the good old days' when everyone was nicer and more interesting and the sun always shone. It's what happens with forums, I guess. All they are is the sum total of what we put into them. And it's up to us what we get out of them, also.

Greatnan Tue 16-Oct-12 16:37:11

The answer is simple , Charlotta - you start an interesting thread and we will all pile in. No use waiting for other people to entertain you!

Charlotta Tue 16-Oct-12 16:33:30

It is only on a computer. In the virtual world! It is NOT real life.

Of anything if this is the day for being truthfull I am getting bored with GN. It was interesting when we started but no many days go by and I don't even look anymore!

kittylester Tue 16-Oct-12 15:43:31

Thank you Geraldine. As *Greatnan says, very timely. flowers

Greatnan Tue 16-Oct-12 15:39:57

Thank you, Geraldine - very timely.

GeraldineGransnet (GNHQ) Tue 16-Oct-12 15:35:29

Do please contact us if you see any evidence of bullying on the forums. It's much more helpful than making public accusations, which may just fuel any fire and create an unpleasant atmosphere.

Do also remember that there should be room for robust discussion on Gransnet and that contrary opinions aren't personally-meant.

But also bear in mind that we exist to provide advice, support and friendship.

Faye Sun 14-Oct-12 23:20:54

Welcome back carbon we have missed you and your insightful posts.

annodomini Sun 14-Oct-12 23:06:30

correction sand sane

annodomini Sun 14-Oct-12 23:05:55

Since we need 'real, sand, human beings on the forums, carbon, I do hope you are going to stick around and have those good discussions with Bags like you used to.

carboncareful Sun 14-Oct-12 23:00:13

Well, after a long absence I thought I'd just pop in and see what was going on. I found this thread - and I'm absolutely none the wiser (about the thread or about what is going on). What a load of rubbish - I've worked backwards over half a dozen pages and cannot understand what any of you are on about - its difficult to believe its real, sane, human beings writing this stuff. I can only conclude gransnet now have a robot computer writing the posts.
Gransnet please fix your robot, I think its malfunctioning !

Nanadogsbody Sat 13-Oct-12 23:04:53

Brave lady! Hic!

whenim64 Sat 13-Oct-12 23:02:12

Anyone who can babysit twins and still see straight has my undying respect! My daughter babysat triplets last week. Must be mad - she has twins of her own!

Nanadogsbody Sat 13-Oct-12 23:00:51

Party pooper... I've changed my mind petallus and go e for a brandy but rumour has it that elegrans supple it all!

Ana Sat 13-Oct-12 22:59:08

Thanks, when, but too tired after an evening babysitting....twins can be so exhausting (as of course you know!)

petallus Sat 13-Oct-12 22:57:04

Appreciate the invite when but just staggering off to bed having fallen asleep whilst watching Montalbano smile

whenim64 Sat 13-Oct-12 22:41:17

You too Ana! Come and join us for a lovely sit down and a drink. smile

Nanadogsbody Sat 13-Oct-12 22:41:16

I've been out for a lovely meal with my son and my dearest DiL. I can home so happy. I thought it was all agreed that we'd aired our views and that was that. I shouldn't have logged on. What's happened? Sorry I've got to put the chucks to bed and that's very spooky down in the dark. Would join you in the quiet corner (thanks for the invite) but ..... sure you understand. moon

Ana Sat 13-Oct-12 22:39:33

Overreaction is right! The scales have certainly fallen from my eyes after reading the posts from 17.24 onwards.

annodomini Sat 13-Oct-12 22:37:22

Nanad - just walk away. Join the quiet corner.

Elegran Sat 13-Oct-12 22:36:06

No arguments allowed in the quiet corner, NanaD , just restful chat and restorative beverages and cakes. You will feel better for a sit-down in there. *when has made some hot toddy and eclairs, and I heard mention of scones too.

whenim64 Sat 13-Oct-12 22:26:07

Petallus Come on over to the Quiet Cornet, too and share a glass of virtual wine. Everyone is welcome smile