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Three cheers for cheelu

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Sel Tue 15-Jan-13 13:55:00

She starts off so many feel good topics and never says anything nasty. I always misread her name as cheerlu -it should be cheer you, a ray of sunshine.

jeni Thu 17-Jan-13 20:51:07

Ditto. The trouble is that after 365 days if you're on WRAG you only get income related rate. If you're in the support group, you get the full rate +. Trouble is , schedule 3 ie support group is very hard to get into and a lot of people do not even realise that there is more than one rate as DWP don't tell them. The first they know is when their money gets stopped or reduced!

Smoluski Thu 17-Jan-13 20:26:59

Thanks nellie will try and find thatxxxx

Nelliemoser Thu 17-Jan-13 20:24:25

jeni nellieSmol On the World at One Radio 4. today, Micheal Meacher was criticising the way ATOS works. I don't know if you heard it or could get it on "listen again".

baubles Thu 17-Jan-13 06:59:49

cheelu flowers GNet can be such a comforting place.

cheelu Thu 17-Jan-13 01:30:37

Oh my word, what! I want to cry.. I have lived 51 and a bit years and never been treated so nice...... thank you for all the lovely things you have said xxxxx

I am so happy that people on GN think I'm ok.. it feels amazing.. x x

Smoluski Wed 16-Jan-13 19:49:06

jeni thank you,flowers that is much appreciatedxx

jeni Wed 16-Jan-13 19:15:44

Or pm me with number if you want to talk!

jeni Wed 16-Jan-13 19:14:18

Oh! Go to CAB and see if in their opinion you should be in support group!

Smoluski Wed 16-Jan-13 18:34:38

jeni just realised am on income based ESA not the contribution based,was,originally on incapacity benefitxxxxx

Smoluski Wed 16-Jan-13 18:31:51

jeni I didn't appeal as my anxiety and depression is the reason I am on it,what hope do I stand when people who have really bad physical problems like standing,walking etc,my problem occurs under pressure, tiredness,stress,in fact anything outside my daily norm,I would love to return to work but after loads of tears and a realisation today of my limitations I realise voluntary work is the best option for me as I am more in control and I am allowed to do this as a work placement with a view may be of paid employment at some point,xxxxxxx

soop we where playing that game where you put a sticker on another persons head and they have to guess who/what they are......he was hard pushed to find he was a dustbin liner grin the more the wine flowed the sillier the gamegrin

soop Wed 16-Jan-13 18:15:53

NellieSmol...the text message had me in stiches. All that mattered, is that you were enjoying yourself. grin

jeni Wed 16-Jan-13 17:35:17

Trouble is its time related. Did you appeal the WRAG? And do you think you should have been in the support group?

Smoluski Wed 16-Jan-13 17:00:38

Thanks anno I have also got my eye on the main chance so I know what if anything I am entitled to when I become a fully fledged pensioner..grin

annodomini Wed 16-Jan-13 16:53:29

Smol - you are working so hard at trying to get a job that you really are earning your ESA! I love your account of the courses that they think up! Thank goodness you can joke about it all - otherwise you'd be making us cry. I hope that AgeUK likes you - don't see why not. The benefits system is a minefield, but I'm sure you can negotiate it! ((((hugs))))

Ariadne Wed 16-Jan-13 16:30:27

Smol grin Respect!

Smoluski Wed 16-Jan-13 16:26:08

Pedants Alert grin cradle marks off his A**exx

Smoluski Wed 16-Jan-13 16:24:21

nelliesmol has been job hunting ,and going on courses devised by the government to teach granny how to suck eggs,and get NVQ'S in toilet attendancy,be an apprentice shelf stacker,being interviewed by some snotty nosed oik who as mum would say hasn't lost the cradle marks of his A**e. .
We have to put in at least 16 hours job search a week to comply with the ESA ruling that I am in the WRAG group.
Have an interview to volunteer for age uk next week,helping with benefit advice..
DB and SIL have been staying for our combined birthday ( me and brother) can recall texting an extremely squiffy message to soop'on Saturday nightgrin

soop Wed 16-Jan-13 13:21:31

Couldn't have put it more succinctly, gracesmum Anyone know what NellieSmol is up to? I miss her worldly-wise threads. wink

gracesmum Wed 16-Jan-13 13:04:37

That's what makes GN stimulating - mature and informed people talkingaload--of--piffle--letting--their--hair--down enjoying intelligent discussionsgrin

jeni Wed 16-Jan-13 12:33:52

Agreed!

soop Wed 16-Jan-13 12:10:25

May we please go back to being our "normal, slightly chaotic selves?". It was so much more fun and definetly more interesting...smile

Ana Tue 15-Jan-13 19:25:36

It's OK - it can be hard to tell...wink
smile

Ella46 Tue 15-Jan-13 19:21:17

Ok, sorry smile

Ana Tue 15-Jan-13 18:58:27

Ella, that was not nitpicking - I genuinely wanted to know how/why an inflection could give rise to a 'pedant alert'! For all I knew, pedantry could stray into all sorts of areas other than language...hmm

Nelliemoser Tue 15-Jan-13 18:57:32

JO7 I think I am coming down on you side here. Just a few too many pretty kittens and cute labrador pups of late.
We need the odd Rotweiler moment or our brains will shrink. wink