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If you meet someone for lunch........

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gracesmum Thu 17-Jan-13 18:45:21

hmmgrin !!! Marelli!

Marelli Thu 17-Jan-13 18:43:27

We're a bit of a 'touchy-feely' family smile However, my grand-daughter might have blown an interview she had last week, when she stood up at the end of it, and gave a goodbye hug to the lady manager who had been part of the panel....hmm. She hasn't had word yet whether she was successful!

cheelu Thu 17-Jan-13 18:29:16

Jo7 only do what YOU feel comfortable doing and don't worry about what is so called--expected..

You can always give it a try if this person is important to you and if it does not feel right then you can just not do it again...

This is a side of you that I have not seen ha ha x x

janeainsworth Thu 17-Jan-13 18:11:03

Jo7 I try to assess the feelings of the person I'm with.
On Monday my best friend from school came to stay and the following day we went out walking.
By obvious mutual consent there was no physical contact at any time, although we enjoyed each other's company very much.
But most of my other friends and acquaintances seem to do it.

Greatnan Thu 17-Jan-13 17:04:23

I have had to get used to two kisses (France) and three kisses (Switzerland) . It was strange at first, as I don't come from a family where much kissing and hugging went on. My sister and I have only started giving each other a hug (no kisses) after 70 years.

Grannyeggs Thu 17-Jan-13 16:52:41

I do but I am very aware that some of my friends don't, so I don' impose my kisses on them! It's not always expected jingle so don't psyche yourself up to do it nobody minds. You could say you have a tummy bug or that you forgot to clean your teeth that morning they won't want to get too close then.grin

Ana Thu 17-Jan-13 16:23:53

I don't like the practice. I only want to kiss or be kissed by my nearest and dearest...and it can be very awkward, with one party half-lunging towards the other, not sure of their reception hmm

j07 Thu 17-Jan-13 16:18:41

Oh sh-te! I ^know* it's expected but I can't do it. Would be alright if it was just the friend, but then the husband steps up............... [angst]

tanith Thu 17-Jan-13 16:16:36

I do on both cheeks.. have done for many years.

Marelli Thu 17-Jan-13 16:10:48

I do, j07. I'm a bit tactile...but am very aware of when not to be, though! smile

j07 Thu 17-Jan-13 16:08:03

someone you've known for a long time, like your whole life minus three years, when it's time to get in the cars to come home, do you kiss them?

This is someone who I sat next to on our first day in infants school, then had a long, long gap without being in touch, and now, thanks to daughter and sodding Friends-Reunited we have recently started seeing again.

I don't. But I feel bad. I think it is expected. But we didn't kiss each other when we were kids so................ ? #worrying about silly things hmm