feeling bad

I am feeling confused and unhappy that I may have caused another GNer to decide to drop out of GN.

Apparently she felt I had made an accusation of racism against her. I did not.

I queried something she wrote. When I got a further explanation of what was meant I understood the context and said so.

Was I wrong to make the query? Was she being too sensitive, was I?

I apologise if it was my query that caused her to leave.