Now I am single and have to think for myself 24/7 I make lists every day. Things to do, things already done so I don't do them again, shopping lists, birthday lists.....it just goes on .However I am very adept at losing lists and start again thus having at least 2 for each subject on the go at any one time
. I also have a daily reminder alarm on my phone for appointments which I am more than likely to forget. I also write a daily diary (when I remember!) to remind me of what I've done and when. I'm hoping that once my brain becomes used to all this 'doing' things will become easier - I never used to be so useless and put it down to the long list (!) of changes brought on by widowhood and the sudden plunge into grieving.
When I was a child I too loved making lists, but I just loved the smell of pen, paper and ink. My treat after visiting the dentist was to be taken to the local stationers to choose a new pencil or notepad (and have a good sniff at the same time) - small pleasures compared to today's children 