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gracesmum Mon 04-Mar-13 10:54:49

There are other cinemas though where one could feel quite comfortable. The cinema at The Lighthouse in Poole, for instance or The Castle in Wellingborough - both small, almost "Art house "cinemas where the same chap takes your ticket as sells you ice cream at the interval! Early afternoon matinees are also good, as Ella says - a friend and I recently went to Quartet at our local Odeon (the MK multiplex is a Cineworld and not my favourite place) - when the light s went up there were only 4 of us in the audience!

Ella46 Mon 04-Mar-13 09:47:55

Cinemas, in the afternoons, are usually (apart from school hols) filled with older people, so it's easy to feel comfortable.

'Orange' wed. in particular as it's very cheap! smile

Ella46 Mon 04-Mar-13 09:45:37

I could go to the cinema alone (in the afternoon), or a pub/restaurant that I'm familiar with, but I could never go on holiday alone.
That fills me with fear, although I admit holidays aren't my favourite things due to very traumatic experiences with my exH!

glammanana Mon 04-Mar-13 09:41:43

I would feel self concious going into a cinema on my own,maybe finding out if there is a group of fellow singletons who would like to go every now and then would help.smile

Grannybug Mon 04-Mar-13 09:35:52

Don't mind going to cinema alone as everyone is just sitting in the dark watching the same film. I think this is where GN is useful to discuss what you have just seen and hear others opinions. Maybe I got used to doing things on my own as was alone for a good number of years before meeting my partner but do understand how daunting social events can be if you are on your own.
Senior screen viewings at some major cinemas offer daytime films (often with tea and biscuits) and they are a cheery crowd that attend which might make it less of an ordeal.

dorsetpennt Mon 04-Mar-13 09:32:47

I wouldn't go to the cinema alone - I'd feel like a billy-no-mates ! I walk down the Chine and along the seafront, also into the gardens down into town by myself but I wouldn't go into the New Forest by myself. When I said this to my daughter she laughed - oh Mum who's going to attak you at your age? Well maybe the old git who flashed me on the bus on my way to work the other day.

Goose Mon 04-Mar-13 09:31:57

Wow! I'm surprised at the response (so far). I thought I was alone on this one. I wondered if it's because I'm inclined to get claustrophobic...but other situations in confined spaces I can cope with. It, for some reason in my head has to be a 'social occasion'. shysal Yes, I know the Kassam, it's so loud I don't need my hearing aids in there:-)

shysal Mon 04-Mar-13 09:16:49

I am the same goose. I never go to the cinema alone, prefer to wait until the DVD comes out.
On the odd occasion that I have gone with GCs to the Kassam complex (you probably know it as you are a fellow Oxonian aren't you?), I find the volume too high and when I watched Mama Mia from near the front the swirling camera shots made me feel dizzy.

Galen Mon 04-Mar-13 09:14:14

And me!

annodomini Mon 04-Mar-13 09:05:01

I am with you there, Goose. Wish I was, in fact, then we could go together. smile

Goose Mon 04-Mar-13 08:33:27

Living on my own I'm pretty independent and have 'done' most things by myself - Holidays, meals (and drinks) out, travelling, etc... alone.
So, how come I'm feeling so nervous about overcoming a deep dread - going to the pictures by myself? Out of interest, I wonder how many of you on GN have similar, unreasonable fears?