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Has everybody arranged their mothers day meal etc?.

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HUNTERF Thu 07-Mar-13 07:25:24

I think it is important that grandparents ensure that their daughters / daughters in law are going to get a mother's day meal or some other form of treat.
As my oldest granddaughter is 6 I think the grandparents will be paying the bill.
I have decided that my granddaughters can earn the money by helping me take Andie for a nice walk in the afternoon or on another day if it is raining.
Their other grandparents will be contributing as well so Dougal ( their dog can come as well ).
My granddaughters will enjoy the walk as well as they love both the dogs.

Frank

Marelli Sun 10-Mar-13 08:35:34

Gally - perfect! sunshine It's snowing here in Fife shock, and I'm just about to turn out to Aldi's....on the bus.....envy!
Happy Mothers Day everyone. smile

Butty Sun 10-Mar-13 08:19:09

sunshine Gally.

Gally Sun 10-Mar-13 04:29:56

Happy Mother's Day to those who wish to celebrate it!
Just had an amazing lunch with the Oz family in a local restaurant : sea food platter and white wine, card from DD1 , Skype from DD3 - what more could a Gally/Mother ask for? 28 degrees and now a siesta sunshine

Galen Sat 09-Mar-13 21:22:18

smile

granjura Sat 09-Mar-13 21:22:16

No Mother's day here on Sunday! And I hate the all commercial aspect of it - it is just yet another money making exercise. But I'm sure daughters will Skype from afar with grand-children. Much rather go for a meal with them when it is not a commercial and very busy day.

Gally Sat 09-Mar-13 21:20:50

It's Sunday here. Woke up to a message on Facebook from DD2 downstairs asking if I was awake and ready for a cup of tea! At the same time DD3 skyped from UK so all in all a lovely start to the day sunshine

Bez Sat 09-Mar-13 21:20:21

Skype is just wonderful smile

Notso Sat 09-Mar-13 21:20:00

Galen smile

Galen Sat 09-Mar-13 21:18:12

My DGD demanded to speak to her grangrey! So Skype was arranged. I then listened to a story read by mummysmile watched her go up and down her slide and then said goodnight!
Made my daygrin

Notso Sat 09-Mar-13 21:14:23

I had to smile in Tesco this evening....
A father with a son of about 8 or 9 were in front of me at the checkout with just a few bits of ordinary shopping.
As it was all being scanned, the checkout operator asked 'Do you need to go back for flowers for tomorrow?'
Dad replied with a smile that he'd bought flowers earlier so was all sorted.
Checkout operator congratulated him on being organised.

I just had this vision of her reminding the hundreds of fathers that must have gone through her checkout today! smile

Galen Sat 09-Mar-13 18:48:52

envy

harrigran Sat 09-Mar-13 18:47:15

Beautiful bouquet of pink roses from DS and DIL delivered by interflora this afternoon, card from DD via moonpig the other day urging me not to open until sunday.
I have a big chocolate cake which I will take when I visit GC tomorrow and hope that their mummy gets to put her bum on a seat and have a slice smile

HUNTERF Sat 09-Mar-13 18:37:41

Hi Absent

The restaurant I am taking my granddaughters to are treating is as a normal day as far as the meal is concerned.
They will let you order flowers etc if you wish but when I spoke about it even the staff admitted you were better off to get the flowers yourself.
They did say if they organised flowers etc they would have to charge extra as somebody would either have to collect and arrange them or they would have to have them delivered.
I suppose they are being fair.

Frank

Galen Sat 09-Mar-13 18:16:06

ginny smile

absent Sat 09-Mar-13 18:11:51

I couldn't believe the display of identical and rather naff bunches of flowers and the prices charged when I made one of my rare visits to a supermarket today. I would guess that restaurants are piling on the costs tomorrow too. As they say, fools and their money…

york46 Sat 09-Mar-13 17:53:05

I think it is a lovely idea Frank. Why on earth shouldn't you do exactly as you want and give pleasure to your daughters. Take no notice of the gain-sayers!!!

Deedaa Sat 09-Mar-13 17:53:05

Sadly my daughter is suffering from mastitis, so I think the biggest treat would be for her to feel halfway human again! Still GS has made her a lovely card.
I suggested to my son that his Waitrose bonus might mean a nice pressie for me - but he said no chance as he won't get it for 2 weeks grin

ginny Sat 09-Mar-13 17:48:22

I've just been treated to an early Mothers day lunch at a resturant by my three DDs. My DGS came too so that he could enjoy the treat with his mum.

He is 10 years old. At the end of the meal he produced his wallet and proudly announced that he was paying for his his own and his Mums meal. I think he may have had a bit of help from DDs partner, but it was so sweet.

grumppa Sat 09-Mar-13 17:35:24

At this time every year I remember my late mother and how she used to say how ridiculous and commercialised Mothering Sunday had become and how she wanted no part of it. One year (I must have been in my late teens/early twenties) I took her at her word and ignored it. Big mistake: she went berserk.

This year DSIL is on a stag weekend so we have been organising DGS aged four to do the right thing by his mother, who is then cooking for MIL, Mrs. Grumppa and me, her two children, other DD and boyfriend, and of course DSIL if he makes it back in time and in a fit state to eat anything.

Bring on the bubbly!

absent Sat 09-Mar-13 16:54:20

Granny23 Everything has its price, doesn't it, but enjoy the coffee and cake when it happens. smile

Granny23 Sat 09-Mar-13 16:52:21

Off tomorrow with both DDs to take a first look at 'wedding' dresses, which should be fun as not only are they both unconventional but also the 'bride' is only 4'10" and size 16 and the bridesmaid/registrar is looking for an outfit that suits both roles. Although I loath 'shopping', this expedition has been presented to me as my Mother's Day treat - I have been promised coffee and cake at some point.

Marelli Sat 09-Mar-13 16:28:36

Goose, I do know how you might be feeling sad. A good few years ago, on the morning of Mothering Sunday, I sent a text to my daughter, something along the lines of, "No Mother's Day messages?". That was the catalyst that estranged us for nearly 7 years. Everything's sorted now, but it did break my heart. She had her reasons - none of which we have discussed since we've been reconciled. Tomorrow I shall receive a card, a visit and a hug from my eldest DD, a text from DS, and a hug when I see him next, and a hug when I next see her, from my lass who felt she had reasons to break away from me for all those years. They will all tell me they love me. That is all I'd ever want from them all. smile

j08 Sat 09-Mar-13 15:59:33

try again with that ! cupcake sunshine flowers smile

j08 Sat 09-Mar-13 15:58:28

Goose [cake] flowers [sun]

nightowl Sat 09-Mar-13 15:57:51

Mine have only remembered because DD will not let them forget. Where would I be without her?

flowers to all those who are feeling sad and forgotten tomorrow