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gracesmum Tue 12-Mar-13 22:26:39

65 years ago tomorrow, a German war bride in a small Scottish town felt that contractions were probably sufficiently advanced for some action to need taking, so she picked up her little suitcase and walked, alove, 3/4 mile up the hill into the town to her MIL's house which was next to her FIL's printing business where her DH the eldest son, worked with his father and brother. Her MIL, not entirely unsympathetic, but feeling this was no big deal, agreed that Yes she should get along to the hospital so she carried on along the High Street to the local Cottage Hospital. Her DH accompanied her but didn't go in of course, you didnt in those days. In fact he went back to the office and awaited developments. She spoke some English but it was her first baby and I imagine she was pretty scared of an unfamiliar situation in a strange country where until very recently the only good German had been a dead German. I believe the midwife was kind, if a bit brusque.
I arrived in due course and my father brought my 7 year old stepsister along to "meet" me after she came out of school with a bunch of daffodils she had picked from our next-door neighbours' garden(!)
How very different from nowadays - ante-natal care, supportive fathers present at the birth, paternity leave, even the offer of a lift to the hospital!
I wonder how on earth my poor Mum coped with the apparent indifference and the expectation that she "had to get on with it".

Thanks Mum flowers

Notso Wed 13-Mar-13 09:25:05

Happy Birthday gracesmum I hope you have a wonderful day! flowers sunshine

annodomini Wed 13-Mar-13 09:25:11

Happy birthday, gracesmum. You deserve a treat or two. A wine or a wee dram perhaps? ((((hugs))))

grannyactivist Wed 13-Mar-13 09:40:57

I love stories. Thanks for sharing yours Graces and here's hoping you have an enjoyable day. cupcake Happy Birthday!

Butty Wed 13-Mar-13 10:04:07

gracesmum Hope you're having a grand Birthday and enjoying yourself. Many Happy Returns! sunshine

soop Wed 13-Mar-13 12:56:40

A very happy birthday, Gracesmum ...those were the days! smile flowers

kittylester Wed 13-Mar-13 13:54:50

GM you share your birthday with DGS (who is 6 today) and my favourite son in law (who is 32) DD3 is now 38+ weeks pregnant so you may also share it with our newest grandchild. cupcake

I share my birthday with one of my nephews and I love the fact that it's something special we have together (even if it is too soon after Christmassad)

numberplease Wed 13-Mar-13 16:03:31

Many Happy Returns of Tomorrow gracesmum!

sunshine flowers wine cupcake.............brew?

janeainsworth Wed 13-Mar-13 16:36:38

Happy Birthday Gracesmum winewine

moomin Wed 13-Mar-13 17:14:47

How times change! Happy Birthday Gracesmum cupcake

Grannyeggs Wed 13-Mar-13 17:26:02

What a great story, have a lovely day gracesmum

ninathenana Wed 13-Mar-13 17:33:32

A very Happy Birthday gracesmum lovely story well told

every year mum loved to relate the story of my dad trudging through snow 2' deep the 8miles from where he worked to the hospital where I was born in January '54