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My daughters have complained my coats are getting scruffy.

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HUNTERF Thu 04-Apr-13 22:03:16

My daughters have said that I have got to buy myself at least 2 new coats.
I have to admit I did notice they were fraying a bit just before Isabelle arrived and I was going to start looking at the first opportunity.
They are not looking after their inheritance by saying I have got to spend some money.

Frank

Deedaa Sat 06-Apr-13 22:24:47

He and David certainly have the same hairstyle at the moment smile Such a joy to watch someone who isn't running round yelling (yes I do mean you Ant and Dec) and doesn't call people you guys!

Galen Fri 05-Apr-13 23:26:20

grinmoon

gracesmum Fri 05-Apr-13 23:23:57

I am just shocked at the choice of "gentleman's outfitters "of a person who lives in one of the smarter areas of Birmingham AND has a London pension
The tailor chappy is impeccably turned out isn''t he? I read somewhere thsat he makes David Beckham look like Swampy! grin

Deedaa Fri 05-Apr-13 22:43:43

The tailor who is judging on the Great British Sewing Bee is doing a range for Debenhams apparently. Probably worth a look?

gracesmum Fri 05-Apr-13 22:27:07

absent - in answer to your question - are you surprised??smile

gracesmum Fri 05-Apr-13 22:26:12

Tesco for a coat, Frank? You are not the man you made us think you are. [disappointed] emoticon

Flowerofthewest Fri 05-Apr-13 22:06:36

Spend their inheritance Frank, its your hard earned money afterall.

glassortwo Fri 05-Apr-13 20:45:37

frank save your money for the DGC and go to the charity shop you will pick a bargain up there.

Ana Fri 05-Apr-13 20:43:56

I don't care whether you care or not, absent. My post was in reply to FlicketyB's.

absent Fri 05-Apr-13 20:24:08

Ana I don't care.

Ana Fri 05-Apr-13 20:17:21

I think Frank is more keen to leave his vast wealth to his daughters and granddaughters than they are to have it! It would seem from what Frank posts that his daughters are always encouraging him to spend money on himself - good for them!

absent Fri 05-Apr-13 20:15:37

Just go and buy a coat or, better still, go to a tailor and order a coat – Primark or Saville Row, whatever suits. How did this one turn into one more account of how the London pension works?

FlicketyB Fri 05-Apr-13 20:06:59

Frank, you are a member of the 'elite', or so you told us after completing the BBC class questionnaire, stop being so pinchpenny, go to a M&S or other good quality men's outfitters and buy yourself some decent clothes.

I cannot believe that your daughters are as covetous of your wealth as you make them out to be. They are probably like I was with my father wanting him to indulge himself in anything he wanted that he could afford and would make his life pleasant and not remotely bothered by how much this would cut my inheritance.

Or is this just an excuse for your parsimony.

Enviousamerican Fri 05-Apr-13 13:45:54

Frank,I understand much more now,thanks.

Nonu Fri 05-Apr-13 12:39:25

You are welcome Hunterf , I have heard that Tesco do a good line in coats . Bet you look smart .

You will be the bees knees of Birmingham .

sunshine

HUNTERF Fri 05-Apr-13 12:36:37

Nonu

Thanks for letting me know.
I have already purchased a spring coat from Tesco this morning.
It is basic and looks tidy.
I will look over the next few days for some more.
I have got to go in to Birmingham at some point within the next 2 weeks so I will look in Slaters then.

Frank

Nonu Fri 05-Apr-13 11:52:48

Why don"t you give Slaters , in the City centre , they have very smart clothes there . Not expensive either , when we go to B"ham Mr N always gives them a look .

smile

HUNTERF Fri 05-Apr-13 11:48:16

Enviousamerican

In the company I mainly worked for the maximum normal pension is two thirds of your final salary if you had contributed to the pension scheme for 40 years.
I was made redundant after 34 years and I got thirty four sixtieths plus my redundancy money. The pension was payable immediately.
If I had asked to leave my pension would have been reduced and I would have not got redundancy.
I worked in London and our salaries were higher but we were given the option to contribute about 6% of our London salary to the pension scheme or 6% of the salary we would have been getting if we had been working outside London. I chose to pay the higher London rate as I did not know what the future would bring.
I still get paid the London pension rate even though I am now in Birmingham.
My wife had a pension as well.
Unfortunately she passed away at 49 after working for her employers for 28 years.
There were various options but the one I took was to have 28 sixtieths payable from when she would have been 60 for 5 years and after that 14 sixtieths for the rest of my life.
I know 5 years full pension was guaranteed to her estate even if I was not alive when she would have been 60 but I don't know how it would have been paid. I presume it would have been paid as a lump sum as people tend to want to wind up estates ASAP.
I know there are schemes with different terms. Final salary schemes which I was in are now disappearing.
I got another job in Birmingham after being made redundant in London for 5 years which was a lower salary but it did top up my pension and it gave me a little bit more pension when I got made redundant again payable immediately.
There were rules in both my wife's and my pension scheme to cover other eventualities but I have not studied them.
As I have worked over 30 years I will get my full state pension next year.

Frank

Enviousamerican Thu 04-Apr-13 23:55:44

Night and thanks! we also have to invest.There is no way most people could just live of their social security though I hear of people that have to try.

glammanana Thu 04-Apr-13 23:51:22

Yes as far as the State Pension goes,but people also pay into a pension scheme if their Company run one or you can join one of your own choosing,Frank is the best for this information really I just know I have enough to be comfortable and not to have to worry about things,I am lucky also to have mr.glamma so am blessed really.
Hope this makes sense for you sweetie,I'm off to my bed now I have been up since 6.30am and need some zzzz's moon

Enviousamerican Thu 04-Apr-13 23:41:15

Glammanana so someone making say 60,000 a yr. would get the same as someone making 25,000 a yr. if they work the exact same amount of years?

glammanana Thu 04-Apr-13 23:27:16

Granny23 grin

glammanana Thu 04-Apr-13 23:26:36

Envious my state pension is based on the years that I paid into the system I think when I got mine it was 30yrs for full amount (can't remember how much it is) I also have a couple of private pentions that I paid into via the Companies I worked for which is paid separatley and with working abroad and paying into the Spanish system I am entitled to a Spanish pension of 40% of whatever their full pension is in 2 yrs time.

Granny23 Thu 04-Apr-13 23:21:33

Best place to find 'gentlemen's' coats is in thrift shops in posh areas. Often seldom worn as bought by wife and ignored by husband who preferred his scruffy old one. grin

Enviousamerican Thu 04-Apr-13 23:11:41

Is a state pension based on how much you paid in like the US social security?