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Feeling my years

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gracesmum Fri 17-May-13 22:36:50

Light bulb in our bedroom blew just as DH was going up to put my electric blanket on (I know, but it's COLD tonight) and of course that tripped the ceiling light circuit on our hyper sensitive fuseboard. No prob, just had to climb up on a chair, thence onto the worktop in utility room and flip it back up.THEN DH was struggling with the light bulb so I offered to get up on a chair again to get it down, but of course changing light bulbs is MAN'S work so he persevered, but eventually I insisted as he can't get up on chairs or balance very well. Then we had to get the shade off, clean it with the feather duster as I think it has not been untouched for years! and replace the whole shebang. What a kerfuffle! I'm not great at climbing up on chairs either but you have to mange somehow. How on earth will we cope when we are 80 - assuming we live that long? How do others manage? Are there any tasks that faze you?

gracesmum Sat 18-May-13 12:18:25

Like the idea re long life bulbs, I'll get some and try to do that. Wouldn't it be good if they only used screw in bulbs though - I hate bayonet fixings and fear breakng the whole cheap brittle plastic thingy plus it is a 2- handed job. Re jars, I always release the pressure by using the blunt end of a bottle opener /can piercer under the lid in 2 or 3 places. Once the jar is no longer sirtight, it is much easier to open. Will take on board the advice re chairs though blush and be sensiblegrin

Stansgran Sat 18-May-13 12:24:27

I'm doing the long life lightbulb change over though stupidly I had these lights which are flush in the ceiling in the bathroom and at the moment we are down to two lights waiting for the electrician to change them as DH just refuses and always has and the bathroom is too small for my stepladder method which is three lightweight sets of steps in three heights ,me on the tallest with one on either side. Makes me feel safe. That was a very long sentence with very little punctuation!

goldengirl Sat 18-May-13 12:27:50

I don't feel my years until I come to open a bottle or jar! They're not just childproof they're 'older person' proof - it's only the 'tweenies' who can open the darn things. Thank goodness for Lakeland!!

I also don't feel my years until I have to get down on the floor to play or change a little one! Fine getting down but a devil of a job to get back up.

j08 Sat 18-May-13 12:28:01

Aka I think realising it is happening is halfway to doing something about it. I do the shoulders back, stand tall thing. Tend not to worry about the grumpy face though. grin

loneranger Sat 18-May-13 14:08:28

A good idea if you need to change a light bulb is to put the new one in a plastic bag along with a dishcloth (to clean the shade) and put it over your arm, its there for when you bring the old one down. I have an extra long feather duster for out of reach jobs, a rubber glove for opening jars and a long handled stick with the grabber for reaching. Oh isn't old age wonderful!!

FlicketyB Sat 18-May-13 15:20:27

I use a step stool, wide top to stand on and easy to carry around . It lives in the broom cupboard. Only downside is that there is no rail for balance so I only use it when others are by me or it is close to a wall or cupboard I can just touch with my finger tips for balance.

Marelli Sat 18-May-13 19:04:21

Well, I'm very tired tonight shock! Have been to Edinburgh - where it was teeming down all day - with eldest and youngest DGDs. (23 and 13) Eldest had a massive hangover and no raincoat, having been at a party last night...youngest started off a bit sullen but was able to flit around Primark cheerily enough hmm. We got soaked, but ate a lovely large lunch and this helped with the 23-year-old's hangover. She and I fell asleep on the bus coming home.
I'm putting it down to my age......or as Les Dawson used to say, 'I'm just a knock-kneed, knackered old nose-bag....' grin

j08 Sat 18-May-13 19:22:46

Primark? Please no.

Ana Sat 18-May-13 19:24:50

grin

Marelli Sat 18-May-13 19:28:31

Yup - PRIMARK!! grin

Deedaa Sun 19-May-13 20:47:05

My godmother who is in her nineties hurt her arm when she fell off the chair she had balanced on a table to get something off a shelf !!! She has promised not to do it again hmm

When my MiL was still living in central London my daughter had to drive all the way in from Bracknell one evening to change a lightbulb for her. It wouldn't have been so bad if MiL hadn't forgotten the whole thing within a few weeks and told us that her neighbours did everything for her.

NfkDumpling Sun 19-May-13 21:03:12

Daren't stand on chairs - can get up - but can't get down again! sad

LizG Sun 19-May-13 22:02:36

Can't carry my vacuum cleaner up or down stairs so had to buy a second one! Can't drag a cylinder cleaner either. Not too good at opening childproof lids either, need to get a child to do it grin

PRINTMISS Mon 20-May-13 08:19:35

I remember my mum telling me she had changed the 'nets' and had stood on a chair to do this - she was 70+ then, and I read the riot act to her, telling her to let me do those things for her - I am now older than she was then, and find myself doing the same thing - it is really a question of how we approach things, forgetting that the body is older than the mind seems to think it is, then being reminded when we find we can't do what we intended to do when we got the chair/step ladder out, and if we do do it, we are exhausted afterward. Writing that, I think I should now be more sensible, and think about the consequences should I have an accident, and need to be looked after. (that all sounds a bit convoluted, but hope understandable!).

Nelliemoser Mon 20-May-13 14:59:52

I am feeling very much older than my age today.

My shoulders upper arms and thumbs have been achy for a couple of weeks but today they are hurting like H***. I don't know what I have been doing apart from knitting and a bit of gardening but I am used to those activities.

I tried washing down the woodwork today but arms hurt. Even pushing the vacuum cleaner was painful. I am P***ED off. I don't know if its just muscle tension or not.
I have already popped the paracetamol. Not a happy bunny!