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celebgran Sun 01-Sept-13 20:38:12

Got my fingers burnt!

My niece split with partner I only found out from him and is sad story 3 little ones involved in view of my daughter denying us contact I tried stay out of it but listened to him. He not seen little ones since march.

Bad idea he has now caused trouble all over pic on dreaded f book!
There is a lot I don't know but do wish I could have been harder and cut him out earlier ,

Really dont need the stress right now!
Families sometimes do do without any of it apart from dear OH and my lovely son.

Anne58 Sun 01-Sept-13 23:05:21

Sorry, celebgran but I'm having a bit of a problem working that out. You mention your niece and her partner, then your daughter denying contact. More than a bit confused

j08 Sun 01-Sept-13 23:28:20

I think celebgran tried to keep out of it as she has already got her fingers burned re the situation with her daughter and grandchildren. I read it that she does not want to be cut off from her nieces. Am I right celebgran?

celebgran Sun 01-Sept-13 23:37:32

Right on jo8 but seems I made cardinal error of being too kind to her ex reson I felt for him sorry if confusing!was hotly disagree with using his 3 little ones s pawns.

Now his stepson told my niece. I was chatting to him online and wham I am he villain my own fault but not totally as she went see my daughter her ex told me life is complicated !

Sod em all as my good friend says.

celebgran Sun 01-Sept-13 23:39:47

Phoenix. Sorry confusing! I meant my niece is denying her ex contact with the 3 little ones and it brings back all pain of our situation!

Very low anyway at moment due to stuff from loft awakening all sorts memories!