When my parents celebrated their golden wedding anniversary, dad told the assembled family that he loved being married to mum, even though he'd spent such a high proportion of those 50 years - looking for her glasses.
I now have reading glasses, and varifocals for driving and watching football on tv. The readers are a cheap pair, the others aren't, so I look after them. I am still training myself to put each pair back in its case, and then into my handbag so I don't spend half the day looking for the specs needed for a particular task (putting the washing machine on ) .
Support and friendship for those whose lives have been affected by estrangement.


what a shame we can't pop videos on lol 




