I am new to gransnet and have only just seen all your lovely messages to me , so thank you to you all. Everyday life is so sad without my DH, there is no real structure to the day when you only have yourself to think about. I have a wonderful supportive family, five children and ten grandchildren but you have to tell them you're ok even when you're not ,as they have their own lives to lead.
There is a lot to do dealing with paperwork etc but not easy to get motivated to do it.
It's so reassuring to hear how other women are coping with the loss of their DH's.
I know the old cliche time is a great healer is so true...so roll on time!