I find that I am guilty of not maintaining friendships because work and family take up so much of my time. I too made a massive move some years ago and left behind many friends, I didn't make new ones at the school gate as the children were older and didn't need me there.I had no car and was studying for a vocational degree but the girls I studied with mostly moved away and now have young children. Most of the time its fine although sometimes I need a chat but as its usually to offload I feel guilty about only sharing problems and so don't pick up the phone or visit. Who needs a moaner?
I do think joining groups is good and you might just find a friend or two who you resonate with. I just wish I had looked after my friends more. I know its a two way street but I think I inadvertently gave the impression my life was full and exciting. Which it isn't.
Feeling uneasy with tradespeople in the house.
Shingles - Again. Have the Vaccine!