This has really made me think. Two of my adult children and one adult DGD has had to ask for help in this way, and I really wouldn't have wanted them to feel they couldn't ask me. If it was me....I can't imagine asking them for help as they have enough roads for what money they now earn. I think I would have to go to my local community and ask for advice.
In our early years together DH and I really did struggle sometimes, to put food on the table for the family. I think I would have to be really, really without the chance of anything coming in, before I would turn to anyone for help.
Friends using messages instead of picking up the phone
The importance of grandparents - we could have told them this!





