Copied and pasted, just one of the thoughtful responses to Max Pemberton's article.
As a Cleric with experience of hospital/hospice chaplaincy work I have found in my experience that the examples you give of parents who reject and withdraw from their child are the exception rather than the rule. Indeed, many, like the parents of Ashya are heroic in their fortitude.
Quite often, during long-term chronic illnesses requiring hospitalisation it is often the parents who have to 'superivise' nurses, junior doctors and the occasional consultant who don't know the child's requirements nearly as well as the parents do.
Example: A child who is nil by mouth for a very good reason being fed whilst the parents have taken a coffee break. Then upon reporting the mistake to the ward sister find that the staff nurse at fault takes umbrage and suddenly the trust is gone and an already intolerable situation becomes desperate.
Example: A neonate who after surgery to correct a congenital bowel defect is given an anti-biotic as a prophylaxis just in case of infection. Days later the child is fitting and pyrexic. The baby is on a surgical ward, looked after by surgical doctors rather than clinical doctors. Mum and dad know something is wrong and urge the doctor(s) to get the clinical team to take a look at baby. The surgical doctor refuses because clearly he knows best. He's going to give baby an anti-biotic, broad-spectrum, covers all bases he tells them. What he doesn't tell them is that he's administered the exact same anti-biotic that was given as a prophylaxis days before. So the gram negative organism that was resistant to the first dose is equally resistant to the second and baby ends up with septicemia and the bacteria grows exponentially and quickly crosses the blood/brain barrier and causes meningitis. That child now has severe learning difficulties and cerebral palsy and a £4.6 million pound damages award to put him in a position that he would have been in 'but for' the negligence, crass stupidity and ego of a surgeon too proud and tribal to call on the expertise of a clinical colleague.
I could go on and on.. Suffice to say doctors are tribal, egotistical, fallible, arrogant and do not listen to parents nearly as much as they ought to, especially when they are called out on the merits of their clinical judgments.
Doctors will often cite their objective expertise as the reason why the are 'right'. However, it is often their Achilles Heal when combined with pride and ego. Then objectivity goes out the window. Compassion goes out the window.
Com-passion.. From the Latin meaning, 'to suffer with'. It is a movement of the heart and it is what gives parents, who do sometimes know better, the courage to question doctors who aren't nearly as infallible as they might wish to believe.
So, Dr Pemberton, as eloquent as your exposition is, it falls down, because you have allowed the objective truth to be colored by your own professional tribalism.
No amount of eloquence can hide the truth that you are merely protecting your own and trying to justify a clear injustice by inferring that the King family are on a par with those who in desperation and fragility fail to stay the course. On the contrary, they seem pretty on the ball and determined to give their son every chance. If, as they say, the physician involved threatened to seek an Emergency Protection Order if they continued to question Asher's treatment, then it is a direct consequence of that misuse of statutory power that has led to a young child being left on his own in a foreign hospital whilst his frantic parents languish in jail.
As a clinician you know these mistakes happen on a daily basis. Why else do we have such an adversarial quango as the NHSLA which fights tooth and nail to reject the negligence and incompetence of NHS health professionals, thus preventing justice for thousands and compounding the hurt caused? My answer is because the NHS, as an institution, operates on the 'Ciaphas Principle'. Better that one man should suffer than the whole institution perish.
Before you hastily tarnish the reputation of these parents by your unjust inferences, at least have the honestly to acknowledge the failings and limitations of your own profession.