HildajennyJ I think you are getting judges muddled with lawyers! If SA is like UK and USA the judges earn a salary and take as much time as a case needs.
Yes good point GrannyTwice about the transparency of the judges reasoning.
I don't think the verdict was a surprise to anyone was it.
Reducing contact because my heart just isn't in it.


. It has actually made me wonder about both systems again. They both have their plusses and their minuses but I'm glad I had an insight into this.