Yes Alie, imagine an upside down letter U. It is simply a metal handle, to grab and heave yourself out of bed.
Of course we all have different back problems. I find it helps to lie on my back and hug my knees, before getting out of bed.... my phsio advised me to do this.
Good luck.
Is funeral planning a conversation you've had with your family?
. If I don't do the exercises every morning, I feel it straight away.