I have never found an alcoholic drink that I really enjoy, so avoid these and always ask for a lemonade, or water. I once went to a rather 'posh'do with Italian waiters, and had a really hard job explaining that I wanted lemonade. In the end the young man brought me a whole bottle, poured a sample in the glass for me, I nodded enthusiastically, and he left the bottle - I was anybody's after that. That does not mean I don't take seriously the problems for alcoholics, I do, and have enormous respect for those who can quit.