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Soutra Wed 25-Mar-15 23:35:14

I have just come back from a leaving dinner for a former colleague - a dedicated teacher, gifted linguist, man of integrity and all round good guy. For reasons I do not understand someone "at the top" has had it in for him and his confidence has been eroded by questions re his classroom practice. I have known him as a teaching colleague for over 10 years before I retired, have seen the excellent results he has achieved and his good relationships with his classes. He was offered "gardening leave" and his job was advertised before he had formally handed in his resignation. He has chosen to walk with his head held high and his integrity intact, but others who know him and I are shocked and saddened that this sort of thing has happened. He could have fought it, but is a gentle, forgiving person who tries to see good in everybody, OK maybe he sounds like a wimp, but I think he has been very brave to walk away.Anybody else had experience of workplace bullying or what I suppose amounts to constructive dismissal? I am just so glad I am out of it.

loopylou Fri 27-Mar-15 17:39:11

Nonnie I consulted a solicitor specialising in Employment Law; unless you have the money and are prepared to lose, it's a non -starter.
I couldn't afford to even try, sadly.

GrannyTwice Fri 27-Mar-15 17:49:56

Well Nonnie - I'm flabbergasted. After the thread you started about stress at work and the comments therein and now you say you were bullied and spent 6 weeks in hospital? What on earth do you think causes a lot of stress at work if not bullying? confused

Nonnie Fri 27-Mar-15 18:17:00

I don't understand your question GT. It feels as if your are criticising me but I don't understand why. There are many reasons for workplace stress and bullying is only one. Overwork, poor work conditions, moaning from colleagues.................. and so on. Even not having enough to do could be stressful

Nonnie Sat 28-Mar-15 10:43:05

Bumping because I would like to understand.

FarNorth Sat 28-Mar-15 11:34:18

Teachers at a school near us made complaints about the bullying head teacher. While investigation was ongoing the HT resigned.
Recently, investigation finished by supporting the complaints and stating that there was a bullying culture at the school, caused by the HT.
I don't know if there is any effect on the retired HT but should think it is a relief to the teachers to have their complaints upheld.

Anya Sat 28-Mar-15 15:08:26

I know a male primary Headteacher who actually struck a young pregnant member of staff. I was on secondment from this school at the time and I was told about it by several members of the staff, but only several months later, at my leaving do.

She, the victim, did not take action and neither did any other staff, including the female deputy. I wonder if she even told her husband.

I never did go back to that school as I was kept on permanently by the LEA

Soutra Sat 28-Mar-15 15:17:02

I am no longer a member of staff but have worked as an exams invigilator since retiring. A month ago I signed an online petition against proposed changes to my former school's admissions procedure (being an academy now they seem to be able to do this) and also wrote a very mild and not in the slightest defamatory tweet expressing my support for the local parents who were afraid their children might lose out to children from out of catchment with a particular talent (music).as I am a local resident I believed I had every right to hold and express an opinion, no? 2 days later I had an apologetic email from the Exams secretary saying how sorry she was but she had been asked(i.e told) not to employ me as an invigilator in future. shock

KatyK Sat 28-Mar-15 15:57:03

I worked in the same government department for 37 years prior to retirement. About 10 years before I retired we were told that our office was to be disbanded and we would have to go to other offices within the same dept. and re-train. A job came up on another floor which involved the work I was doing at the time so I volunteered as I didn't want to re-train and liked what I did. What a mistake! There were 4 other women on my section, one of which took an instant dislike to me. The problem was that they were overloaded with work so obviously an extra pair of hands meant that the work was getting back to people quicker and I got a fair bit of praise. This seemed to infuriate this woman (she was just one grade higher than me but not my boss). She did everything in her power to make me feel excluded and was even insulting at times. I had been there a week when I took a pre-planned week's holiday. When I returned to work she had erected a partition between my desk and hers saying 'your fast typing is getting on my nerves'. She would go out and buy bars of chocolate and hand them around. She threw mine over the partition! Why oh why didn't I throw it back? I was in a very difficult situation as she was very well 'in' with the bosses and if I had complained they would have said 'well it was OK until you came' so I had to soldier on. It was horrible. She eventually told one of the bosses she was in love with him and he was horrified. She rather smartly went on a 'career break' and was never seen again. grin