Kittylester you hit the nail on the head with your last but one email but in your last email I think you make the mistake of thinking that being busy and pleasing yourself are mutually exclusive. They aren't. What you do is keep yourself busy doing things that you enjoy.
I belong to several groups to do with interests I have, I am on the committees, I volunteer to do things and at times it can be stressful and demanding, but I am doing all this in pursuit of something I enjoy.
I will always drop everything to help friends and family in emergencies. I looked after one member of my family for almost two months when they were seriously ill and there was no-one else available, but I would never volunteer to do something inconvenient or unpleasant just to please someone.
Should women have equal pay and opportunities?
Good Morning Friday 19th April 2024