Hello kitcheners with or without buggerations - I love it!!
I have recently typed two long posts and then been unable to send them - that's a buggeration of a small magnitude not the large magnitude ones that Ann, Alea and Lona and others are experiencing.
Ann, have you contacted AgeUk or any of the Alzheimer's charities to ask for a sitter? A friend of mine used to do that as a volunteer.
One of my brothers went to visit Mum yesterday and found her to be terribly unwell. As we have 2 DGC with us for the weekend, my other brother went to see her in the pm. She was so bad that he stayed until midnight listening to her talking about being ready to meet the angels. He went back this morning and she was sitting up in bed eating a yogurt and reminding people that she is 92 next week. 
Some of you will remember that she was ill last Christmas and New Year and I fully expect her to disrupt the next one too. 
The past couple of weeks have been so stressful that I have been eating bacon butties washed down with
at any given opportunity.
Lona, I think it's what most of us do isn't it - just getting on with it. But hopefully, anyone suffering buggerations will keep coming into the kitchen to unburden themselves.